"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What If Your Girl Wanted To Be...

ProDJ26

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A Stripper!!!! thats right, me and my girl had a discussion about her "dancing"
I honestly didnt know what to say until she mentioned the fact of her giving lap dances. I was pissed to hear but I told her I never really thought of it much. But the fact that she'll be giving lap dances to random as dudes to me sounds like an open inventation to her having sex with other dudes. I mean come on, a lap dance is practically dry humping and foreplay!!!!! :eek:

I guess the question for you guys is, what if your girl wanted to start stripping? :confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sexy_kuta

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you got a slut for a gf, fuk her, use her and make much of it.
you wont have the same opportunity later on.
 

ValleyDJing

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Dude...agree to let her do it for money, take a cut, start hiring on other chicks, and become the Pimp of a prostitute ring. Ballin!!!!
 

wjh

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i would get over my oneitis and turn her out.
How much of this money she'll be making will be going to pay your rent, buy you clothes, etc.?
 

ProDJ26

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ValleyDJing said:
Dude...agree to let her do it for money, take a cut, start hiring on other chicks, and become the Pimp of a prostitute ring. Ballin!!!!
I am a business major lol maybe this is my future business

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KontrollerX

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"what if your girl wanted to start stripping?"

Nexting would be my response if it was during a relationship with that chick.

No offense but a chick that does that is a fvcking slvt and I would have no respect for the girl to move forward and continue the relationship with her.

Do what you gotta do though man.

Its about what you can tolerate not us and what you find to be ok not us.

I'm with SMC though that using her for sex would be a good option to consider but yeah the minute a chick reveals she wants to do this and goes and does it turn off your emotions for her and just play along and get what you can if you will not next outright.
 

Sir Juanalot

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Also, be aware that it will probably turn her into a materialistic bi0tch, my friends wife went down that path and went from a relatively chilled relaxed woman, into a money hungry crazy h0.
 

playa99

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ValleyDJing said:
Dude...agree to let her do it for money, take a cut, start hiring on other chicks, and become the Pimp of a prostitute ring. Ballin!!!!
im with him on this one lol ;)

she wouldnt accept you being a male stripper

so why should you have to put up with her lap dancing

fair's fair
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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