"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What If Your Girl Wanted To Be...

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ProDJ26

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A Stripper!!!! thats right, me and my girl had a discussion about her "dancing"
I honestly didnt know what to say until she mentioned the fact of her giving lap dances. I was pissed to hear but I told her I never really thought of it much. But the fact that she'll be giving lap dances to random as dudes to me sounds like an open inventation to her having sex with other dudes. I mean come on, a lap dance is practically dry humping and foreplay!!!!! :eek:

I guess the question for you guys is, what if your girl wanted to start stripping? :confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you got a slut for a gf, fuk her, use her and make much of it.
you wont have the same opportunity later on.
 
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Dude...agree to let her do it for money, take a cut, start hiring on other chicks, and become the Pimp of a prostitute ring. Ballin!!!!
 
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i would get over my oneitis and turn her out.
How much of this money she'll be making will be going to pay your rent, buy you clothes, etc.?
 
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ValleyDJing said:
Dude...agree to let her do it for money, take a cut, start hiring on other chicks, and become the Pimp of a prostitute ring. Ballin!!!!
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I am a business major lol maybe this is my future business

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"what if your girl wanted to start stripping?"

Nexting would be my response if it was during a relationship with that chick.

No offense but a chick that does that is a fvcking slvt and I would have no respect for the girl to move forward and continue the relationship with her.

Do what you gotta do though man.

Its about what you can tolerate not us and what you find to be ok not us.

I'm with SMC though that using her for sex would be a good option to consider but yeah the minute a chick reveals she wants to do this and goes and does it turn off your emotions for her and just play along and get what you can if you will not next outright.
 
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Also, be aware that it will probably turn her into a materialistic bi0tch, my friends wife went down that path and went from a relatively chilled relaxed woman, into a money hungry crazy h0.
 
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ValleyDJing said:
Dude...agree to let her do it for money, take a cut, start hiring on other chicks, and become the Pimp of a prostitute ring. Ballin!!!!
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im with him on this one lol ;)

she wouldnt accept you being a male stripper

so why should you have to put up with her lap dancing

fair's fair
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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