Quiksilver
Master Don Juan
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What would you do?
Discuss.
Discuss.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What if one day Sosuave disappeared?!
- Thread starter Quiksilver
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Nothing.
I've already learned pretty much everything I can off this site.
Actually it would probably benefit me because I already spend too much time searching through old threads on this site I've already read before for new knowledge heheh.
I've already learned pretty much everything I can off this site.
Actually it would probably benefit me because I already spend too much time searching through old threads on this site I've already read before for new knowledge heheh.
KontrollerX
Master Don Juan
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I'd celebrate.
Specifically I'd celebrate by popping open a cold drink, playing "Nothing Else Matters" by Metallica on my Itunes and then toasting to Sosymp becoming a well deserved 404 error.
Though thats pretty much my ritual for celebrating anything worthy of celebration...
Specifically I'd celebrate by popping open a cold drink, playing "Nothing Else Matters" by Metallica on my Itunes and then toasting to Sosymp becoming a well deserved 404 error.
Though thats pretty much my ritual for celebrating anything worthy of celebration...
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Be pissed off that I haven't hard-archived my most recent posts.
Then I'd be glad I would no longer have to endlessly explain the reason people's posts and threads disappear on the MM forum is because they were too lazy to read the forum rules.
Then I'd be glad I would no longer have to endlessly explain the reason people's posts and threads disappear on the MM forum is because they were too lazy to read the forum rules.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
blinkwatt101
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Lol at speakeasy.
If it closed I'd just go to other forums.
If it closed I'd just go to other forums.
I hate it when a promising new forum goes belly-up. Been on a couple recently (other interests) where that happened just as a good core of posters had established themselves.
For this one, I'd also be sad but equally very glad of the amount of good information I've gleaned in the short time I'd been lurking/posting. Which has made me feel a lot better about myself, what I'm doing and how I'm going about it.
For this one, I'd also be sad but equally very glad of the amount of good information I've gleaned in the short time I'd been lurking/posting. Which has made me feel a lot better about myself, what I'm doing and how I'm going about it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
KarmaSutra
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Like everything else, it would quickly fade in reflection.
SoSuave is a drive thru. I stop in and check out what's new on the menu. Leave my advice and move on.
This place helped me and was the the first of my many steps on the path of discovering MANtality.
I've learned there are many other paths too...
SoSuave is a drive thru. I stop in and check out what's new on the menu. Leave my advice and move on.
This place helped me and was the the first of my many steps on the path of discovering MANtality.
I've learned there are many other paths too...
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
Pissed that I would have to find a new job that pays just as nicely with the benefits.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
Does this site actually pay you to be a mod? Most boards I know of the mods are all volunteers.TheVirtualMind said:
Novelus
Don Juan
I've already downloaded/printed out the DJ Bible and Boot Camp books. That's really all you need if you stick with it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Hidden-Hand
Don Juan
I would be fine with that because I know all I need to know already, but at the same time I would almost feel bad for all the guys who dont know this stuff and will continue to crash and burn constantly with no hope or anyone to help them correct their mistakes.