Quiksilver
Master Don Juan
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What would you do?
Discuss.
Discuss.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What if one day Sosuave disappeared?!
- Thread starter Quiksilver
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Nothing.
I've already learned pretty much everything I can off this site.
Actually it would probably benefit me because I already spend too much time searching through old threads on this site I've already read before for new knowledge heheh.
I've already learned pretty much everything I can off this site.
Actually it would probably benefit me because I already spend too much time searching through old threads on this site I've already read before for new knowledge heheh.
KontrollerX
Master Don Juan
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I'd celebrate.
Specifically I'd celebrate by popping open a cold drink, playing "Nothing Else Matters" by Metallica on my Itunes and then toasting to Sosymp becoming a well deserved 404 error.
Though thats pretty much my ritual for celebrating anything worthy of celebration...
Specifically I'd celebrate by popping open a cold drink, playing "Nothing Else Matters" by Metallica on my Itunes and then toasting to Sosymp becoming a well deserved 404 error.
Though thats pretty much my ritual for celebrating anything worthy of celebration...
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Be pissed off that I haven't hard-archived my most recent posts.
Then I'd be glad I would no longer have to endlessly explain the reason people's posts and threads disappear on the MM forum is because they were too lazy to read the forum rules.
Then I'd be glad I would no longer have to endlessly explain the reason people's posts and threads disappear on the MM forum is because they were too lazy to read the forum rules.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
blinkwatt101
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Lol at speakeasy.
If it closed I'd just go to other forums.
If it closed I'd just go to other forums.
I hate it when a promising new forum goes belly-up. Been on a couple recently (other interests) where that happened just as a good core of posters had established themselves.
For this one, I'd also be sad but equally very glad of the amount of good information I've gleaned in the short time I'd been lurking/posting. Which has made me feel a lot better about myself, what I'm doing and how I'm going about it.
For this one, I'd also be sad but equally very glad of the amount of good information I've gleaned in the short time I'd been lurking/posting. Which has made me feel a lot better about myself, what I'm doing and how I'm going about it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
KarmaSutra
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Like everything else, it would quickly fade in reflection.
SoSuave is a drive thru. I stop in and check out what's new on the menu. Leave my advice and move on.
This place helped me and was the the first of my many steps on the path of discovering MANtality.
I've learned there are many other paths too...
SoSuave is a drive thru. I stop in and check out what's new on the menu. Leave my advice and move on.
This place helped me and was the the first of my many steps on the path of discovering MANtality.
I've learned there are many other paths too...
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
Pissed that I would have to find a new job that pays just as nicely with the benefits.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
Does this site actually pay you to be a mod? Most boards I know of the mods are all volunteers.TheVirtualMind said:
Novelus
Don Juan
I've already downloaded/printed out the DJ Bible and Boot Camp books. That's really all you need if you stick with it.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hidden-Hand
Don Juan
I would be fine with that because I know all I need to know already, but at the same time I would almost feel bad for all the guys who dont know this stuff and will continue to crash and burn constantly with no hope or anyone to help them correct their mistakes.