"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What if one day Sosuave disappeared?!

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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evoken

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Nothing.

I've already learned pretty much everything I can off this site.

Actually it would probably benefit me because I already spend too much time searching through old threads on this site I've already read before for new knowledge heheh.
 

KontrollerX

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I'd celebrate.

Specifically I'd celebrate by popping open a cold drink, playing "Nothing Else Matters" by Metallica on my Itunes and then toasting to Sosymp becoming a well deserved 404 error. :up:

Though thats pretty much my ritual for celebrating anything worthy of celebration...
 

Rollo Tomassi

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Be pissed off that I haven't hard-archived my most recent posts.

Then I'd be glad I would no longer have to endlessly explain the reason people's posts and threads disappear on the MM forum is because they were too lazy to read the forum rules.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Colossus

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I'd just have to find a new website to post on when I have my morning coffee :)

Ive gleaned everything I can from this site. At this point I just post about lifting in H&F and chime in on a MM thread once in a while.
 

speakeasy

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A lot of people would increase their masturbation frequency to pass all that extra time.
 

SamePendo

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I'd kick myself

Because I didn't get to establish contact with people I respect a lot. Tits and PRL got away, but now the others too?! No way!
 

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I hate it when a promising new forum goes belly-up. Been on a couple recently (other interests) where that happened just as a good core of posters had established themselves.

For this one, I'd also be sad but equally very glad of the amount of good information I've gleaned in the short time I'd been lurking/posting. Which has made me feel a lot better about myself, what I'm doing and how I'm going about it. :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lion

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I'd be happy that I'd found it, but also pretty pissed -there's so much to learn and in times like these (for me) it's a big help.
 

KarmaSutra

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Like everything else, it would quickly fade in reflection.

SoSuave is a drive thru. I stop in and check out what's new on the menu. Leave my advice and move on.

This place helped me and was the the first of my many steps on the path of discovering MANtality.

I've learned there are many other paths too...
 

TheVirtualMind

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Pissed that I would have to find a new job that pays just as nicely with the benefits.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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TheVirtualMind said:
Pissed that I would have to find a new job that pays just as nicely with the benefits.
Does this site actually pay you to be a mod? Most boards I know of the mods are all volunteers.
 

Novelus

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I've already downloaded/printed out the DJ Bible and Boot Camp books. That's really all you need if you stick with it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hidden-Hand

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I would be fine with that because I know all I need to know already, but at the same time I would almost feel bad for all the guys who dont know this stuff and will continue to crash and burn constantly with no hope or anyone to help them correct their mistakes. :(
 
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