lol, you didn't really fix your frame at all. if you broke up with her then phucked her friend then you would be coming from a strong frame brother. You would have an even more impressive frame if you nexted her the second she started her BS.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What i had to do to fix frame
- Thread starter anon56
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
stop indulging in exclusive relationships and cheating will never be an issue again
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Really it's all about living your truth. Chicks are going to cheat if they want to, it's not about any effort to control them, because you can't. If you are someone that values exclusivity then you shouldn't have people around you that do not share your values. All any man can do is control how they respond to what happens. If you are a man that cheats, then you are a hypocrite if you expect your chick to remain loyal. That is all I'm saying.
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AJ84
Guest
She sounds low value. But if you’re just going to spin plates then yeah trust doesn’t matter and nothing is owed to the other.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.