lol, you didn't really fix your frame at all. if you broke up with her then phucked her friend then you would be coming from a strong frame brother. You would have an even more impressive frame if you nexted her the second she started her BS.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What i had to do to fix frame
- Thread starter anon56
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
stop indulging in exclusive relationships and cheating will never be an issue again
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Really it's all about living your truth. Chicks are going to cheat if they want to, it's not about any effort to control them, because you can't. If you are someone that values exclusivity then you shouldn't have people around you that do not share your values. All any man can do is control how they respond to what happens. If you are a man that cheats, then you are a hypocrite if you expect your chick to remain loyal. That is all I'm saying.
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AJ84
Guest
She sounds low value. But if you’re just going to spin plates then yeah trust doesn’t matter and nothing is owed to the other.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.