lol, you didn't really fix your frame at all. if you broke up with her then phucked her friend then you would be coming from a strong frame brother. You would have an even more impressive frame if you nexted her the second she started her BS.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What i had to do to fix frame
- Thread starter anon56
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
stop indulging in exclusive relationships and cheating will never be an issue again
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Really it's all about living your truth. Chicks are going to cheat if they want to, it's not about any effort to control them, because you can't. If you are someone that values exclusivity then you shouldn't have people around you that do not share your values. All any man can do is control how they respond to what happens. If you are a man that cheats, then you are a hypocrite if you expect your chick to remain loyal. That is all I'm saying.
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AJ84
Guest
She sounds low value. But if you’re just going to spin plates then yeah trust doesn’t matter and nothing is owed to the other.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.