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Anyone ever go back for secs, or just because whatever, after her no contacting you?
Like a stalemate?
Like a stalemate?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What happens when YOU go back after no contact?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
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She has to come back and you have to pump and dumped .if you don't it's the same situation.
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If you have other options why are you asking this question?
If you have no other options, what have you been doing since you've been no contact?
Not a good place to be OP, the purpose of no contact is to walk away permanently and find other women, not to play some childish game.
You have done neither of these apparently so what was the point of no contact again?
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I go no contact cuz I want to be alone. I'm going through something personal.
But suppose any dude wants space or is upset, or just bored of the monotony, then he wants that philly again.
But suppose any dude wants space or is upset, or just bored of the monotony, then he wants that philly again.
wifehunter
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"What happens when YOU go back after no contact?"
Typically...you can expect the 'same sh!t, different day'.
Unless the Lord works some kind of miracle, you're back in same bullsh!t.
A good woman is not born, they are made.
Typically...you can expect the 'same sh!t, different day'.
Unless the Lord works some kind of miracle, you're back in same bullsh!t.
A good woman is not born, they are made.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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So if a good woman is made, how can you make her if you just bounce on them all the time?
wifehunter
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So how is she made? By society or her parents or self?
Mostly involves her childhood upbringing via her parents. It’s the ethical and/or moral base that most of her adult decisions and actions spring from…
If she had a fvcked up childhood don’t expect much from her as an adult unless she has grown past it.
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wifehunter
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I wouldn't put confidence in any of those.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Plus also, I feel like if you can go back and do your guy's thing then who cares.
I mean, you're never really together until you're connecting physically and then you're apart again.
I mean, you're never really together until you're connecting physically and then you're apart again.
You do when they text your Mom.
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Nothing came out of that text.
Just wanted to share it and hear from my dudes.
You're putting two separate threads together.
1) I'm just contemplating theories.
2) I'm still ghost mode
But isn't the jerk blowing loads in her azz that we tell dudes that, that's what's going on when hes not getting her...isn't that jerk the dude that comes and goes as he pleases?
Just wanted to share it and hear from my dudes.
You're putting two separate threads together.
1) I'm just contemplating theories.
2) I'm still ghost mode
But isn't the jerk blowing loads in her azz that we tell dudes that, that's what's going on when hes not getting her...isn't that jerk the dude that comes and goes as he pleases?