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Anyone ever go back for secs, or just because whatever, after her no contacting you?
Like a stalemate?
Like a stalemate?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What happens when YOU go back after no contact?
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- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
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She has to come back and you have to pump and dumped .if you don't it's the same situation.
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If you have other options why are you asking this question?
If you have no other options, what have you been doing since you've been no contact?
Not a good place to be OP, the purpose of no contact is to walk away permanently and find other women, not to play some childish game.
You have done neither of these apparently so what was the point of no contact again?
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I go no contact cuz I want to be alone. I'm going through something personal.
But suppose any dude wants space or is upset, or just bored of the monotony, then he wants that philly again.
But suppose any dude wants space or is upset, or just bored of the monotony, then he wants that philly again.
wifehunter
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"What happens when YOU go back after no contact?"
Typically...you can expect the 'same sh!t, different day'.
Unless the Lord works some kind of miracle, you're back in same bullsh!t.
A good woman is not born, they are made.
Typically...you can expect the 'same sh!t, different day'.
Unless the Lord works some kind of miracle, you're back in same bullsh!t.
A good woman is not born, they are made.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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So if a good woman is made, how can you make her if you just bounce on them all the time?
wifehunter
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So how is she made? By society or her parents or self?
Mostly involves her childhood upbringing via her parents. It’s the ethical and/or moral base that most of her adult decisions and actions spring from…
If she had a fvcked up childhood don’t expect much from her as an adult unless she has grown past it.
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wifehunter
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I wouldn't put confidence in any of those.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Plus also, I feel like if you can go back and do your guy's thing then who cares.
I mean, you're never really together until you're connecting physically and then you're apart again.
I mean, you're never really together until you're connecting physically and then you're apart again.
You do when they text your Mom.
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Nothing came out of that text.
Just wanted to share it and hear from my dudes.
You're putting two separate threads together.
1) I'm just contemplating theories.
2) I'm still ghost mode
But isn't the jerk blowing loads in her azz that we tell dudes that, that's what's going on when hes not getting her...isn't that jerk the dude that comes and goes as he pleases?
Just wanted to share it and hear from my dudes.
You're putting two separate threads together.
1) I'm just contemplating theories.
2) I'm still ghost mode
But isn't the jerk blowing loads in her azz that we tell dudes that, that's what's going on when hes not getting her...isn't that jerk the dude that comes and goes as he pleases?