"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What happened with ex?

After BU and NC what happend with ex?

  • sex once

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • few times

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • regularly

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • get back into rel short

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • get back into rel long......

    Votes: 1 20.0%

  • Total voters
    5

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Following on from the other poll......

sex once/few times/ regularly/ get back into rel short/long......

SO FAR...........post how long post BU it was....(another poll needed)

Assuming BU of 3-6 months here......say how long

With more gf's than one - just average it


If you havent done anything - we already have the stats for that (40%)
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BU & NC for 3months. I was dumpee. Got super fit, started spinning plates, bought a bad@ss sport coupe.

Ran into her outside a pub & was making out with her within 5min. She text me a few days later, we met up. We're back into the relationship at 2wks.

We'll see where it goes from here, but I'm stoked to be getting free dinner & loads of booty
 

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GhengisT said:
BU & NC for 3months. I was dumpee. Got super fit, started spinning plates, bought a bad@ss sport coupe.

Ran into her outside a pub & was making out with her within 5min. She text me a few days later, we met up. We're back into the relationship at 2wks.

We'll see where it goes from here, but I'm stoked to be getting free dinner & loads of booty
job well done dude! i think i had that chance, was going well but blew it by saying some stupid stuff

interesting 3 months looks like a general rule here..........
 

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Desdinova said:
Where's the option for "never saw the bytch again"?
that means your in the 40% I mentioned (from other poll)....this is just for actual contact
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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