"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What happened with ex?

After BU and NC what happend with ex?

  • sex once

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • few times

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • regularly

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • get back into rel short

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • get back into rel long......

    Votes: 1 20.0%

  • Total voters
    5

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Following on from the other poll......

sex once/few times/ regularly/ get back into rel short/long......

SO FAR...........post how long post BU it was....(another poll needed)

Assuming BU of 3-6 months here......say how long

With more gf's than one - just average it


If you havent done anything - we already have the stats for that (40%)
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BU & NC for 3months. I was dumpee. Got super fit, started spinning plates, bought a bad@ss sport coupe.

Ran into her outside a pub & was making out with her within 5min. She text me a few days later, we met up. We're back into the relationship at 2wks.

We'll see where it goes from here, but I'm stoked to be getting free dinner & loads of booty
 

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GhengisT said:
BU & NC for 3months. I was dumpee. Got super fit, started spinning plates, bought a bad@ss sport coupe.

Ran into her outside a pub & was making out with her within 5min. She text me a few days later, we met up. We're back into the relationship at 2wks.

We'll see where it goes from here, but I'm stoked to be getting free dinner & loads of booty
job well done dude! i think i had that chance, was going well but blew it by saying some stupid stuff

interesting 3 months looks like a general rule here..........
 

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Desdinova said:
Where's the option for "never saw the bytch again"?
that means your in the 40% I mentioned (from other poll)....this is just for actual contact
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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