"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What happened with ex?

After BU and NC what happend with ex?

  • sex once

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • few times

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • regularly

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • get back into rel short

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • get back into rel long......

    Votes: 1 20.0%

  • Total voters
    5

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Following on from the other poll......

sex once/few times/ regularly/ get back into rel short/long......

SO FAR...........post how long post BU it was....(another poll needed)

Assuming BU of 3-6 months here......say how long

With more gf's than one - just average it


If you havent done anything - we already have the stats for that (40%)
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BU & NC for 3months. I was dumpee. Got super fit, started spinning plates, bought a bad@ss sport coupe.

Ran into her outside a pub & was making out with her within 5min. She text me a few days later, we met up. We're back into the relationship at 2wks.

We'll see where it goes from here, but I'm stoked to be getting free dinner & loads of booty
 

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GhengisT said:
BU & NC for 3months. I was dumpee. Got super fit, started spinning plates, bought a bad@ss sport coupe.

Ran into her outside a pub & was making out with her within 5min. She text me a few days later, we met up. We're back into the relationship at 2wks.

We'll see where it goes from here, but I'm stoked to be getting free dinner & loads of booty
job well done dude! i think i had that chance, was going well but blew it by saying some stupid stuff

interesting 3 months looks like a general rule here..........
 

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Desdinova said:
Where's the option for "never saw the bytch again"?
that means your in the 40% I mentioned (from other poll)....this is just for actual contact
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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