"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What happened with ex?

After BU and NC what happend with ex?

  • sex once

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • few times

    Votes: 2 40.0%

  • regularly

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • get back into rel short

    Votes: 2 40.0%

  • get back into rel long......

    Votes: 1 20.0%
  • Total voters
    5
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Following on from the other poll......

sex once/few times/ regularly/ get back into rel short/long......

SO FAR...........post how long post BU it was....(another poll needed)

Assuming BU of 3-6 months here......say how long

With more gf's than one - just average it


If you havent done anything - we already have the stats for that (40%)
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BU & NC for 3months. I was dumpee. Got super fit, started spinning plates, bought a bad@ss sport coupe.

Ran into her outside a pub & was making out with her within 5min. She text me a few days later, we met up. We're back into the relationship at 2wks.

We'll see where it goes from here, but I'm stoked to be getting free dinner & loads of booty
 
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BU & NC for 3months. I was dumpee. Got super fit, started spinning plates, bought a bad@ss sport coupe.

Ran into her outside a pub & was making out with her within 5min. She text me a few days later, we met up. We're back into the relationship at 2wks.

We'll see where it goes from here, but I'm stoked to be getting free dinner & loads of booty
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job well done dude! i think i had that chance, was going well but blew it by saying some stupid stuff

interesting 3 months looks like a general rule here..........
 
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Desdinova said:
Where's the option for "never saw the bytch again"?
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that means your in the 40% I mentioned (from other poll)....this is just for actual contact
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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