"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What happened to bradd80?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fatal Jay

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Really? Brad is one of the guys thats been her for a long time, and drop some good game. What was he saying?
 

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Really? Brad is one of the guys thats been her for a long time, and drop some good game. What was he saying?
Been calling everyone *** guzzling faggots. Even those who agreed with him. It was about Donald Trump and he posted it in the main forum. Thread had 4 pages in one day, mostly from him insulting everyone. Then it was locked, but he would reopen it to make a post and relock it. Eventually it got deleted. Now he's banned lol
 

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that sucks, I learned alot from that dude over the years
 

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Yeah, that thread was very disturbing. I don't think I've seen anyone break that many forum rules in one thread. He did have some good points about game that he posted throughout the years, but he also came off as arrogant and condescending to me.

Arrogance combined with validation (likes) is often a recipe for this type of thing. They get a sense that they're untouchable and start acting irresponsibly with little consideration for consequences. We've seen it before with other members here who have very strong opinions and talk down to others. Haven't seen a moderator acting like this before though.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I was shocked that he would blatantly abuse his position as a moderator.
 

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At this point, myself and the rest of the moderators and admin don't even really know what happened. We are looking into a few possibilities of stuff, especially since it seemed to come straight out of nowhere.

Also, please remember that his actions and words do NOT in any way represent the rest of the moderators and admin on this site. We all were caught off guard.
 

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Well, could it be that someone hacked into his account?
 

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@TheVirtualMind I can see 3 plausible explanations.
  1. He was always hot headed, good at hiding it and finally blew up.
  2. He got hacked.
  3. He grew tired of this forum and was going to quit anyways, thus had no motive to restrain himself anymore.
He wasn't dumb so unless he got hacked he must have known his spree would end in a ban.

I didn't think his actions represented the admins and mod team, I don't believe anyone thought that. You guys generally do a good job of moderating the forum without being too strict, that's difficult to accomplish on a forum with such controversial topics.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm so sick of the "could his account have been hacked?" as the excuse for people and their poor behavior.

Nope, that was him. Just like when you see other posters who seem stable but then start posting as if they "own the joint and can do whatever they want" - it is them as well.

We've all had moments when our ego could take over. Some people are less adept at 'checking themselves' in those moments.

As tough a pill as it is to swallow, the people who display poor behavior....well those are personality traits they contain. It's up to them to check themselves such that they dont become defining traits.

When you become a mod on this site paid or not, you agree to help control the representation f the brand.
 
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@TheVirtualMind I can see 3 plausible explanations.
  1. He was always hot headed, good at hiding it and finally blew up.
  2. He got hacked.
  3. He grew tired of this forum and was going to quit anyways, thus had no motive to restrain himself anymore.
He wasn't dumb so unless he got hacked he must have known his spree would end in a ban.

I didn't think his actions represented the admins and mod team, I don't believe anyone thought that. You guys generally do a good job of moderating the forum without being too strict, that's difficult to accomplish on a forum with such controversial topics.
I do hope that someone has connected with him in a very real way to make sure that he is legit okay in the head. I say that only because the posting spree was extremely unexpected and out of character for him.
 
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It was a pure meltdown... seeems he was high on crystal met or life just hit him bad...

Hopefully, him doing it here allowed him to avoid the ''real life meltdown'' and he could keep his composure in front of humans.

His streak lasted a whole 24-36hours... none stop... that was odd.

To Sazc... you know DaDynamically... admits he drunk rant.. he wrote it maybe times (don't let your emotions overcome facts)

Anyway, he name called me alot with Columbus... ironic that I was reading his dating guide at the same time and finding it good.

Nobody is perfect... pretending stuff here won't improve your life game... and life always win unless you beat it hard, all the time
 

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As far as him being hacked, that's one of many possibilities. The whole situation was extremely disheartening and disturbing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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politics and religon

never discuss it with strangers


as someone who struggled with this my adult life, a little humility goes a long way. he had none
 

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@Von I know da dynamically to post to everyone that he was actually cold stone sober, and in his right mind, when he posted.

Dont let your bromance influence your emotions when posting?.

Intoxicant or not there's no excuse for blatant a$$hole
 
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I would imagine that being a mod, and getting plenty of "likes" could be addicting. It might have just have been his way of making sure he got a clean break. Lots of people "pretend" to quit forums, only to keep coming back.

For example, if I decided to quit sosuave in a way so I'd NEVER be tempted to return, I'd burn as many bridges as possible on the way out. Then coming back to this time wasting circle jerk wouldn't be an option...

Maybe he was inspired by the last episode of Better Call Saul...(with the old ladies...)
 

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Wow I must have missed a hell of a thread.

What did he say? Who did he attack?
Mostly Von and ChristopherColumbus. He still flamed me and a few others a little bit too though. Work prsssures probably got to him lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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