ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
What was that whole ordeal about? Dude was going crazy.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What happened to bradd80?
- Thread starter ImTheDoubleGreatest!
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Been calling everyone *** guzzling faggots. Even those who agreed with him. It was about Donald Trump and he posted it in the main forum. Thread had 4 pages in one day, mostly from him insulting everyone. Then it was locked, but he would reopen it to make a post and relock it. Eventually it got deleted. Now he's banned lol
Serenity
Moderator
Yeah, that thread was very disturbing. I don't think I've seen anyone break that many forum rules in one thread. He did have some good points about game that he posted throughout the years, but he also came off as arrogant and condescending to me.
Arrogance combined with validation (likes) is often a recipe for this type of thing. They get a sense that they're untouchable and start acting irresponsibly with little consideration for consequences. We've seen it before with other members here who have very strong opinions and talk down to others. Haven't seen a moderator acting like this before though.
Arrogance combined with validation (likes) is often a recipe for this type of thing. They get a sense that they're untouchable and start acting irresponsibly with little consideration for consequences. We've seen it before with other members here who have very strong opinions and talk down to others. Haven't seen a moderator acting like this before though.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
At this point, myself and the rest of the moderators and admin don't even really know what happened. We are looking into a few possibilities of stuff, especially since it seemed to come straight out of nowhere.
Also, please remember that his actions and words do NOT in any way represent the rest of the moderators and admin on this site. We all were caught off guard.
Also, please remember that his actions and words do NOT in any way represent the rest of the moderators and admin on this site. We all were caught off guard.
Sho-No-Luv
Senior Don Juan
Well, could it be that someone hacked into his account?
Serenity
Moderator
@TheVirtualMind I can see 3 plausible explanations.
I didn't think his actions represented the admins and mod team, I don't believe anyone thought that. You guys generally do a good job of moderating the forum without being too strict, that's difficult to accomplish on a forum with such controversial topics.
- He was always hot headed, good at hiding it and finally blew up.
- He got hacked.
- He grew tired of this forum and was going to quit anyways, thus had no motive to restrain himself anymore.
I didn't think his actions represented the admins and mod team, I don't believe anyone thought that. You guys generally do a good job of moderating the forum without being too strict, that's difficult to accomplish on a forum with such controversial topics.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Maybe he drunk spammed like da dynamically lol
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
sazc
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I'm so sick of the "could his account have been hacked?" as the excuse for people and their poor behavior.
Nope, that was him. Just like when you see other posters who seem stable but then start posting as if they "own the joint and can do whatever they want" - it is them as well.
We've all had moments when our ego could take over. Some people are less adept at 'checking themselves' in those moments.
As tough a pill as it is to swallow, the people who display poor behavior....well those are personality traits they contain. It's up to them to check themselves such that they dont become defining traits.
When you become a mod on this site paid or not, you agree to help control the representation f the brand.
Nope, that was him. Just like when you see other posters who seem stable but then start posting as if they "own the joint and can do whatever they want" - it is them as well.
We've all had moments when our ego could take over. Some people are less adept at 'checking themselves' in those moments.
As tough a pill as it is to swallow, the people who display poor behavior....well those are personality traits they contain. It's up to them to check themselves such that they dont become defining traits.
When you become a mod on this site paid or not, you agree to help control the representation f the brand.
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sazc
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As far as I remember, da dynamically claims he is always stone cold sober when he posts.
sazc
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I do hope that someone has connected with him in a very real way to make sure that he is legit okay in the head. I say that only because the posting spree was extremely unexpected and out of character for him.
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It was a pure meltdown... seeems he was high on crystal met or life just hit him bad...
Hopefully, him doing it here allowed him to avoid the ''real life meltdown'' and he could keep his composure in front of humans.
His streak lasted a whole 24-36hours... none stop... that was odd.
To Sazc... you know DaDynamically... admits he drunk rant.. he wrote it maybe times (don't let your emotions overcome facts)
Anyway, he name called me alot with Columbus... ironic that I was reading his dating guide at the same time and finding it good.
Nobody is perfect... pretending stuff here won't improve your life game... and life always win unless you beat it hard, all the time
Hopefully, him doing it here allowed him to avoid the ''real life meltdown'' and he could keep his composure in front of humans.
His streak lasted a whole 24-36hours... none stop... that was odd.
To Sazc... you know DaDynamically... admits he drunk rant.. he wrote it maybe times (don't let your emotions overcome facts)
Anyway, he name called me alot with Columbus... ironic that I was reading his dating guide at the same time and finding it good.
Nobody is perfect... pretending stuff here won't improve your life game... and life always win unless you beat it hard, all the time
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
As far as him being hacked, that's one of many possibilities. The whole situation was extremely disheartening and disturbing.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
politics and religon
never discuss it with strangers
as someone who struggled with this my adult life, a little humility goes a long way. he had none
never discuss it with strangers
as someone who struggled with this my adult life, a little humility goes a long way. he had none
sazc
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Politics, race, and religion. Those are the big 3 no-no categories. Learned that the hard way lol
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I would imagine that being a mod, and getting plenty of "likes" could be addicting. It might have just have been his way of making sure he got a clean break. Lots of people "pretend" to quit forums, only to keep coming back.
For example, if I decided to quit sosuave in a way so I'd NEVER be tempted to return, I'd burn as many bridges as possible on the way out. Then coming back to this time wasting circle jerk wouldn't be an option...
Maybe he was inspired by the last episode of Better Call Saul...(with the old ladies...)
For example, if I decided to quit sosuave in a way so I'd NEVER be tempted to return, I'd burn as many bridges as possible on the way out. Then coming back to this time wasting circle jerk wouldn't be an option...
Maybe he was inspired by the last episode of Better Call Saul...(with the old ladies...)
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Mostly Von and ChristopherColumbus. He still flamed me and a few others a little bit too though. Work prsssures probably got to him lol
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.