"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What guys have the most haters?

Who has the most haters?

  • An Attractive guy with an attractive woman

    Votes: 8 42.1%

  • A very mediocre looking guy with an attractive woman

    Votes: 2 10.5%

  • An ugly guy with an attractive woman

    Votes: 9 47.4%
  • Total voters
    19

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wow....Attractive guys who make an effort to look good get hated on the most so far according to the poll.

Yeah, that makes alot of sense (sarcasm)
 
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None of the above. My vote is douchebags (attractive or not) with hot chicks.
 
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I'm going to go and say the opposite of everyone here and say a nice guy. The rare times a nice guy pulls off a really hot chick and walks around with her on the streets you see every jerk and douchebag out there hating on him.

I have to disagree horaholic. Most guys might be jealous of the douchebags/jocks walking around with the all the hot chicks but nobody says a thing because they are afraid of getting their ass beat!

Not only that but i'm sure many people here have seen cases of nice guys getting disrespected when walking with a hot chick. Guys openly staring/checking out even flirting with a hot chick walking with a nice guy bf are not uncommon, usually done to bring the guy down (mostly coming from jerks). You don't see people going after a guy's chick if the guy happens to be a jock or a douchebag. If the guy happens to have just the face of a nice guy it seems like it's open season on the girl hes walking with if she happens to be really hot.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My vote is for men who can easily attract any woman they want, and are generally surrounded by women. I used to hate those guys way back when I knew nothing about attraction.
 
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f283000 said:
I'm going to go and say the opposite of everyone here and say a nice guy. The rare times a nice guy pulls off a really hot chick and walks around with her on the streets you see every jerk and douchebag out there hating on him.

I have to disagree horaholic. Most guys might be jealous of the douchebags/jocks walking around with the all the hot chicks but nobody says a thing because they are afraid of getting their ass beat!

Not only that but i'm sure many people here have seen cases of nice guys getting disrespected when walking with a hot chick. Guys openly staring/checking out even flirting with a hot chick walking with a nice guy bf are not uncommon, usually done to bring the guy down (mostly coming from jerks). You don't see people going after a guy's chick if the guy happens to be a jock or a douchebag. If the guy happens to have just the face of a nice guy it seems like it's open season on the girl hes walking with if she happens to be really hot.
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That's why it's important to work out. Whether you look like a nice guy or not, dudes ain't going to mess with you if you look jacked.
 
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The more haters you have, the better. Back in my nicer guy days I would have laughed at that, but it's true. It's like Arnold said, "Everybody pities the weak. Jealousy you have to earn." Let's be honest, that's what haters are; if they sincerely thought you were beneath them, they wouldn't pay attention to you at all. They make the effort to "hate" on you as a way of dealing with the fact that you make them feel inferior.

I am highly experienced on this subject.

I have the most haters. I'm tall, muscular, very handsome, and speak with power and eloquence. In situations where guys are vying for the attention of women, I am the gold standard to which they are compared, and they don't like it. Married men don't want me around their wives. Every bar I enter serves "haterade" but I guess I'm the only one not drinking it.

Haters are guys living in a reactive world instead of creating their own. Hate is "Beta".
 
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f283000 said:
I'm going to go and say the opposite of everyone here and say a nice guy. The rare times a nice guy pulls off a really hot chick and walks around with her on the streets you see every jerk and douchebag out there hating on him.

I have to disagree horaholic. Most guys might be jealous of the douchebags/jocks walking around with the all the hot chicks but nobody says a thing because they are afraid of getting their ass beat!

Not only that but i'm sure many people here have seen cases of nice guys getting disrespected when walking with a hot chick. Guys openly staring/checking out even flirting with a hot chick walking with a nice guy bf are not uncommon, usually done to bring the guy down (mostly coming from jerks). You don't see people going after a guy's chick if the guy happens to be a jock or a douchebag. If the guy happens to have just the face of a nice guy it seems like it's open season on the girl hes walking with if she happens to be really hot.
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That's why it's important to work out. Whether you look like a nice guy or not, dudes ain't going to mess with you if you look jacked.
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it's one of those situation were they're thinkin
"she goin out with HIM?",
they don't take the guy seriously or think of him as a threat.

the most extreme situation of seen of this was on a show.

i remember watchin an episode of true life.
this guy who was skinny and looked nerdy was dating this fine a$$ black chick who was a stripper.
the couple's walkin through the parkin lot of a club and every guy there was lookin at her, cat callin and tryin to flirt with her.
after they showed the clip the couple talked about how that happens everywhere they go because guys can't believe he's datin her.
from what i saw on the show the guy seemed passive.
 
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