ImmortalDragon
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I need some help here <_< >_>
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What got you to approach that first girl?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Disconnect
Master Don Juan
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My first approach was a group of girls at the pool playing ball. I was doing laps, and the ball missed me by a hair, either by accident or on purpose 
. It went on from there. While I never approached before, I thought it to be too perfect an opportunity to waste. I didn't get numbers, made a lot of mistakes (like letting their IL drop because I hung out with them for the rest of the day, and didn't ask for number fast enough). But I still went home happy because I found something I didn't know I had - cahoonas made of steel
. It went on from there. While I never approached before, I thought it to be too perfect an opportunity to waste. I didn't get numbers, made a lot of mistakes (like letting their IL drop because I hung out with them for the rest of the day, and didn't ask for number fast enough). But I still went home happy because I found something I didn't know I had - cahoonas made of steel shagnscoob
Senior Don Juan
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well the first few times i really approached a girl it was because we had hardcore eye contact going on, like way more than most DJs would need to consider approaching
its really encouraging to get that kinda EC, it just makes you feel like she wants you to (which she probably does at that point)
its really encouraging to get that kinda EC, it just makes you feel like she wants you to (which she probably does at that point)
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
3 weeks of promoising myself i would go up and talk to her and never could (and my best freind saying "you still havent aproched her") eventualy i just did it, i was slightly nervous, she was with 2 freinds and the second the attention went away from me, (with in a minute) i walked off with out saying bye
now i am more confident and do a much better job of approching.