ImmortalDragon
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I need some help here <_< >_>
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What got you to approach that first girl?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Master Don Juan
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My first approach was a group of girls at the pool playing ball. I was doing laps, and the ball missed me by a hair, either by accident or on purpose 
. It went on from there. While I never approached before, I thought it to be too perfect an opportunity to waste. I didn't get numbers, made a lot of mistakes (like letting their IL drop because I hung out with them for the rest of the day, and didn't ask for number fast enough). But I still went home happy because I found something I didn't know I had - cahoonas made of steel
. It went on from there. While I never approached before, I thought it to be too perfect an opportunity to waste. I didn't get numbers, made a lot of mistakes (like letting their IL drop because I hung out with them for the rest of the day, and didn't ask for number fast enough). But I still went home happy because I found something I didn't know I had - cahoonas made of steel shagnscoob
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well the first few times i really approached a girl it was because we had hardcore eye contact going on, like way more than most DJs would need to consider approaching
its really encouraging to get that kinda EC, it just makes you feel like she wants you to (which she probably does at that point)
its really encouraging to get that kinda EC, it just makes you feel like she wants you to (which she probably does at that point)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
3 weeks of promoising myself i would go up and talk to her and never could (and my best freind saying "you still havent aproched her") eventualy i just did it, i was slightly nervous, she was with 2 freinds and the second the attention went away from me, (with in a minute) i walked off with out saying bye
now i am more confident and do a much better job of approching.