ImmortalDragon
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I need some help here <_< >_>
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What got you to approach that first girl?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Master Don Juan
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My first approach was a group of girls at the pool playing ball. I was doing laps, and the ball missed me by a hair, either by accident or on purpose 
. It went on from there. While I never approached before, I thought it to be too perfect an opportunity to waste. I didn't get numbers, made a lot of mistakes (like letting their IL drop because I hung out with them for the rest of the day, and didn't ask for number fast enough). But I still went home happy because I found something I didn't know I had - cahoonas made of steel
. It went on from there. While I never approached before, I thought it to be too perfect an opportunity to waste. I didn't get numbers, made a lot of mistakes (like letting their IL drop because I hung out with them for the rest of the day, and didn't ask for number fast enough). But I still went home happy because I found something I didn't know I had - cahoonas made of steel shagnscoob
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well the first few times i really approached a girl it was because we had hardcore eye contact going on, like way more than most DJs would need to consider approaching
its really encouraging to get that kinda EC, it just makes you feel like she wants you to (which she probably does at that point)
its really encouraging to get that kinda EC, it just makes you feel like she wants you to (which she probably does at that point)
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
3 weeks of promoising myself i would go up and talk to her and never could (and my best freind saying "you still havent aproched her") eventualy i just did it, i was slightly nervous, she was with 2 freinds and the second the attention went away from me, (with in a minute) i walked off with out saying bye
now i am more confident and do a much better job of approching.