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What exactly is low interest from women?

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Our date is supposed to be at the zoo and then a fast food restaurant with ice cream and fast food.
Zoo and fast food? That's a weird first date idea. How do you escalate at those places? Was that your idea or hers?

This kind of "date" gives off a strongly non-sexual vibe. Why not take her to a bar for drinks instead?
 

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Zoo and fast food? That's a weird first date idea. How do you escalate at those places? Was that your idea or hers?

This kind of "date" gives off a strongly non-sexual vibe. Why not take her to a bar for drinks instead?
It was mine. I chose it because it would involve walking around and a lot of things to break the ice with

For the bar, I don't take alcohol. What do you think
 

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The zoo and fast food? She'd probably be more interested if you just invite her over with clearly sexual goals. When she isn't replying, she probably has a guy, she remembers you when she doesn't and/or things are rocky with the other one.

One chick I opened mentioned no bf, exchanged contacts, and then she mentions her bf when I asked her out for a drink. No other messages were sent in the meantime. A year later she invites me over to her place (I made enough of an impression and maybe she ran out of guys in her immediate circle). We had a thing for a few months that included he sneaking out of a quarantine facility at the border and we met in the forest to bang. Patience pays here. But undercommunicate. If she's interested she will make it easy and open all the doors. Some women try to place you in the orbiter category. You just don't orbit. Leave the communication channels open but don't use them. Let her initiate. When she does, plan to meet up. Ask when she's free.
The thing is we live in the school halls of residence, the opposite sex is not allowed in
 

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She replies the first text and then takes about a month to reply the subsequent one, she sends a voice note apologising saying she was focused on her exams
Dude, you answered your own question in the first sentences above in your post.

That is exactly what low interest is.
If she doesn't invest into the convo from the start and makes most of comments something like 80% her 20% you then it is not worth your time.
 

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UPDATE

I finally texted her on Thursday to schedule a date. She never replied. I guess you guys were right. I've deleted her number already

Saw her yesterday, she looked guilty. I didnt care and ignored her anyway
 

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Zoo and fast food? That's a weird first date idea. How do you escalate at those places? Was that your idea or hers?

This kind of "date" gives off a strongly non-sexual vibe. Why not take her to a bar for drinks instead?
You have to be careful if you go to the zoo, because the alpha male of the chimpanzees might swoop in and take your girl.
 

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What exactly is low interest from women?

So I got this girls number around March this year, I met her on campus and approached her

She replies the first text and then takes about a month to reply the subsequent one, she sends a voice note apologising saying she was focused on her exams

School goes on break, we resume around August and we meet sometimes in the same study location. But we run different programs(exams and tests) so logistics has been difficult(the school calendar is a mess due to the covid pandemic break so everything is really fast paced

I finally decided to ask her out when I just finished an exam and was free. She says she's busy, that she works on Saturdays and her exams were close. The she counter offers by saying we can go out after her exams. Now she's done with her exams and I'll be done with mine after next week

The thing here is, she seems quite cold everytime I see her. Well she eventually warms up when we start talking but I initiate every single time. She even replies text selectively

Our date is supposed to be at the zoo and then a fast food restaurant with ice cream and fast food.
The thing is I'm not really comfortable with how things are. I think her interest is low.

I guess I'll hit her up when I'm done with exams, go on the date if she doesn't come up with an excuse and we'll see what happens

Maybe I'm overthinking this, maybe she's shy or maybe it's low interest? What do you think

Sorry for the long read
0 compliance /thread
 

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I've dated women who went to college and worked full time jobs, if they are interested they WILL make time for you.

There is no such thing as a busy girl
A busy girl is a thot lulz
 

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A busy girl is a thot lulz
This. No girl is too busy, ever. Don’t ever fall for the “focusing on my career, don’t have time to be in a relationship” bs. She’s got time for Chad and the carousel, she can make time for you too if she wanted to.
 

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This. No girl is too busy, ever. Don’t ever fall for the “focusing on my career, don’t have time to be in a relationship” bs. She’s got time for Chad and the carousel, she can make time for you too if she wanted to.
One of the keys to game is baiting for compliance. From go, she mentions career i have 0 interest in. I don't care about her pronouns or her non profit.

I'm going places in life. Women can come with or get left behind.

I lead. She follows or #next! Again, compliance is the game. I don't chase. I replace. She can have her non profit and cat food. There's girls turning 18 everyday until forever.
 

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When you meet a high interest women you’ll just see the differences for yourself. Everything is just easier. Now, what you will encounter and what I’ve been encountering is high interest women turning into low interest women out of nowhere. I have yet to figure out how to combat that or even tell the difference between genuine high interest vs one who’s faking high interest.
If she's going from high interest to low interest the problem isn't her its you

Something you are doing is turning her off , women can get the "ICK" from the tiniest of mistakes and they can be pretty ruthless when it comes to going from hot to cold

I would test different stuff with different girls dont use the same material / frequency / humour for all of them switch it up filter what works and what doesn't
 

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UPDATE

I finally texted her on Thursday to schedule a date. She never replied. I guess you guys were right. I've deleted her number already

Saw her yesterday, she looked guilty. I didnt care and ignored her anyway
Don't try to act like a baller now. You wasted 7 months of your life worrying about some chick that didn't give you the time of day.

You learned from this.
 

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If she's going from high interest to low interest the problem isn't her its you

Something you are doing is turning her off , women can get the "ICK" from the tiniest of mistakes and they can be pretty ruthless when it comes to going from hot to cold

I would test different stuff with different girls dont use the same material / frequency / humour for all of them switch it up filter what works and what doesn't
But were they really high interest or were they posing as high interest when in reality they were lukewarm at best? I’m telling you, there’s a difference between a woman with legit high interest and one that’s faking it.
 

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I’ve had women that could fake it like you wouldn’t believe. Quick story, I had been on 4 dates with this girl and things seemed to be going great. She even admitted several times she was into me, she wanted to see me and made time to see me. My moms birthday was coming up and she insisted on buying her a present even though she’d never met her. My mom met her and they hit it off, that was on a Friday. Monday everything changed, she started acting like a different person and then it was all but impossible to make plans with her all of a sudden. She was suddenly too busy.lol So yeah, after a few experiences like that I am here to tell you, you just never know when it’s genuine and when it isn’t.
I have a hunch that your mom is somehow involved in the affair (maybe something she told her ....), because something has changed in Her since that party, i don't know its just a hunch
 

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But were they really high interest or were they posing as high interest when in reality they were lukewarm at best? I’m telling you, there’s a difference between a woman with legit high interest and one that’s faking it.
Your going too deep into it, women dont generally fake high interest for no reason they know by doing that they attract creeps and the wrong type of men its actually pretty dangerous and most of them will be aware of this

the only time they tend to do it is if they are gold diggers and know you have a lot of cash or if you are say local celebrity

For normal guys generally a woman will either be high or low she will either enable you to escalate her or she won't

very very rarely will you get one in-between
 

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Your going too deep into it, women dont generally fake high interest for no reason they know by doing that they attract creeps and the wrong type of men its actually pretty dangerous and most of them will be aware of this

the only time they tend to do it is if they are gold diggers and know you have a lot of cash or if you are say local celebrity

For normal guys generally a woman will either be high or low she will either enable you to escalate her or she won't

very very rarely will you get one in-between
Women you meet online are absolutely this way. I also think damaged women act this way, they come on extremely fast and they lose interest in the same way too. If it was something I was doing or saying this would be a lifelong problem but it’s never been until the last couple of years. I know my personality hasn’t changed, I haven’t changed. I’m the same guy I was when I wasn’t having these issues.
 

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I have a hunch that your mom is somehow involved in the affair (maybe something she told her ....), because something has changed in Her since that party, i don't know its just a hunch
Nah my mom isn’t living anymore but she didn’t say anything. I’ve never had a girl complain about my mom when they met her, they usually went on and on about how sweet she was. To be honest thinking back, this girl did the same thing to another guy she was dating before me. Strung him along for a month even though she said she wasn’t attracted but tried to force herself to be. She’s an ******* is all. She will die fat and alone thankfully.
 
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