"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What exactly is flirting
- Thread starter Prodoge
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I tend to banter with everyone, to not be misread. It's fun!
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Establishing eye contact, building that cexual bond. Looking at eachother and feeling that cexual heat, she looks at you like she is about to svck your d1ck and you look back like your about to shove it in her. That's cexual attraction.
Look at her winking, getting a wink back with a little smile, that's flirting.
Even catching eye contact then smile is called flirting, a girl will know your trying to flirt with her.
Just body language that communicates, I would like to embrace or get to know you in a romantic way is called flirting.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
It depends, usually after you've built a little rapport. But if it's someone you already know then right away. You start to 'flirt' when you want to push boundaries a little from casual to sexy.... if she flirts back you've been given the green light to escalate.
Just about anything, a little teasing and innuendo works fairly well, eye contact is a must. If she touches you, then touch her back, go from there, but some chicks just like to flirt, and nothing is going to happen, these gals are great to practice on if you are learning how to do this. Married chicks in the 30s are the best to practice on, they like to flirt and if they've been married for a few years, sh!ts getting stale and they appreciate the attention.
Chicks dig attention, flirting is a form of attention. It's not really about putting out a sexual vibe... it's more about testing the waters to see if it's warm or cold.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
zekko
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I agree, you could be having the simplest of conversations and still be flirting. It's not really about what you're saying, it's more about the vibe and attitude behind it.