Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
It depends, usually after you've built a little rapport. But if it's someone you already know then right away. You start to 'flirt' when you want to push boundaries a little from casual to sexy.... if she flirts back you've been given the green light to escalate.At what point are you flirting ?
Just about anything, a little teasing and innuendo works fairly well, eye contact is a must. If she touches you, then touch her back, go from there, but some chicks just like to flirt, and nothing is going to happen, these gals are great to practice on if you are learning how to do this. Married chicks in the 30s are the best to practice on, they like to flirt and if they've been married for a few years, sh!ts getting stale and they appreciate the attention.What subjects do you talk about when flirting ?
Chicks dig attention, flirting is a form of attention. It's not really about putting out a sexual vibe... it's more about testing the waters to see if it's warm or cold.Does it have to be with some kind of sexual wibe ?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I agree, you could be having the simplest of conversations and still be flirting. It's not really about what you're saying, it's more about the vibe and attitude behind it.Flirting is very wide.