You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Its ok cause the cost of her staying its on him and she is not gonna kill people or being a threat or a discomfort to the local population.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Your an idiot. Lol
Sounds like you’re a bigot. Nothing you said was based in fact. African Immigrants are the most educated citizens in the United States. Those “****hole countries” breed a lot of doctors and engineers.
False data. Educated does not mean the ability to pose and solve problems. That’s IQ.
Ahhh here comes the truth. You think dark skinned immigrants are dangerous. They make you uncomfortable. Gotta keep them scary brown people away!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Nazis used racist “research” to persecute Jews. You dodged my question about Irish immigration to in attempt to prove the “racial inferiority” of Africans. Are you sure you’re not a Nazi?
Nope. I conversing with an idiot. Lol
Population doesn’t represent cultural influence. Nice try.
“Boy” I’ll let your racist innuendo slide. I’m conversing with someone uncomfortable with the fact that his country needs immigrants.
Actually the nazis borrowed eugenics, that’s what it’s called, from a US woman called Margret Sanger. The founder of Planned Parenthood.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Credibility is lost the moment someone cites a conspiracy circulating in right wing media. Have a nice day sir.
What is with you right wingers and rape?
I want skilled workers. And more births. We need them to hit the ground running and not sucking down resources.
“Invasion” is a euphemism used by the right wing to gin up fear about “scary” brown people. The dodge and pivot was predictable. Have a nice day to you too!
Im talking about europe as you can guess from the thread, and no africans are the least educated people we get here most are illegal immigrants and prone to crime and violene...even africans in france or uk coming from a second or third generation makes no difference.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Invasion is when a huge group of people invade the space of an other, we talked about barbarian invasion when 100k germans invaded the roman empire but we cant talk about invasion when half a million african invaded europe from 2013?
Never mentioned race, its all in your npc programming to repeat your script.
His frame is wrong, what he said is wrong thats a typical leftist tactic to frame something as true despite being wrong to get an angle in the discussion, feminists do the same basically.
Of course. I was having fun with him. There is no way of curing or changing his thought process.
Try to read his posts while running baldurs gate or elder scroll theme, you will see he is an amazing NPC...al his lines and behaviours are scripted and if something new comes he either repeats them or goes blue screen and reset.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.