Hi all,
I'm an AFC learning to pick up some of the traits of a DJ. Not all, but just some traits that DJs have.
There's this HB8.5 chick at my workplace where I like.
She's pretty shy, not very talkative(unlike hors) and doesn't open up much.
We work in the same office and everything and frequently talk to each other about everyday life(our childhood, activities, what we do in the morning etc.) and say greetings everyday etc.
All along, I have never been sure whether she had a boyfriend or not, but I never asked her either.
Today, we were having dinner after work(just me and her).
Halfway, we ran out of topics to talk and I brought up a miscellaneous topic about music to break the awkward silence.
Below is our convo:
Me: So, what kind of music you listen to?
Her: Pop, rap, country, anything that sounds good. You?
Me: Mostly anything, I don't have a preference.
5 SECONDS OF AWKWARD SILENCE.
Me: So, you ever bought any portable music players, like Zune or iPod?
Her: No, not really.
1 SECOND OF QUICK SILENCE.
Her: My boyfriend bought me a portable video player.
Me: Video player? That's very cool...blah blah blah...
Obviously, I got a little bit of freaked out when she mentioned "boyfriend", but I played it totally cool, and I dunno whether I should be proud of myself.
In fact, I behaved so cooly that I didn't even bat an eyelid and my ****ing facial reaction didn't even change at all!
These few days, I have been pretty sweet to her(in an AFC manner), such as buying ice-cream and dividing it into two cups for us, as well as treating her to meals every now and then(not everytime).
When she gets a little fever, I would also kind of ask her and if she went to see a doctor or something.
1) Thus, when she mentions "boyfriend" in the convo above, is it to test my reaction? Or is it a casual remark?
2) If it's really a reaction tester, then was my "cool" reaction a wise one? Obviously, I'm not obessed about her and I don't want her to think I'm some crappy desperado.
3) What should my next step be?
Thanks all!
Nikar.
I'm an AFC learning to pick up some of the traits of a DJ. Not all, but just some traits that DJs have.
There's this HB8.5 chick at my workplace where I like.
She's pretty shy, not very talkative(unlike hors) and doesn't open up much.
We work in the same office and everything and frequently talk to each other about everyday life(our childhood, activities, what we do in the morning etc.) and say greetings everyday etc.
All along, I have never been sure whether she had a boyfriend or not, but I never asked her either.
Today, we were having dinner after work(just me and her).
Halfway, we ran out of topics to talk and I brought up a miscellaneous topic about music to break the awkward silence.
Below is our convo:
Me: So, what kind of music you listen to?
Her: Pop, rap, country, anything that sounds good. You?
Me: Mostly anything, I don't have a preference.
5 SECONDS OF AWKWARD SILENCE.
Me: So, you ever bought any portable music players, like Zune or iPod?
Her: No, not really.
1 SECOND OF QUICK SILENCE.
Her: My boyfriend bought me a portable video player.
Me: Video player? That's very cool...blah blah blah...
Obviously, I got a little bit of freaked out when she mentioned "boyfriend", but I played it totally cool, and I dunno whether I should be proud of myself.
In fact, I behaved so cooly that I didn't even bat an eyelid and my ****ing facial reaction didn't even change at all!
These few days, I have been pretty sweet to her(in an AFC manner), such as buying ice-cream and dividing it into two cups for us, as well as treating her to meals every now and then(not everytime).
When she gets a little fever, I would also kind of ask her and if she went to see a doctor or something.
1) Thus, when she mentions "boyfriend" in the convo above, is it to test my reaction? Or is it a casual remark?
2) If it's really a reaction tester, then was my "cool" reaction a wise one? Obviously, I'm not obessed about her and I don't want her to think I'm some crappy desperado.
3) What should my next step be?
Thanks all!
Nikar.