Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What does this mean (apart from the obvious)

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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christz

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oh god, dude it means she'll think about it c'ya tomorrow.

this is the second post, with the same stuff in it. either this girl is playing a game of hard to get or she's an AW.

your supplmenting her need for attention with your flirting etc.. girls with there head on straight or ACTUALLY LIKE you will not say

"i'll think about it"

if they like you, they'll either tell you WHY they can't and offer up another time, OR they'll go out with you
 

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do you even have this girls NUMBER yet? i mean that can be a perfect test of how hot or cold she is to you,

if you call her and she never calls back, if your th eonly one calling, if you leave her a voicemail and she never returns it etc..

i mean jesus..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mmmmm MILKSHAKES!!!!

Yea straws are great for milkshakes.
Speaking of which... I'm hijacking this thread and actually making it interesting.

This is what you get for wasting my time.

List your favorite milk shake flavors guys!!

My favorites include: Oreo, Strawberry, Banana, Cherry.

Mmmm strawberry banana is a good one too :up:

Also how do you eat them?
Do you use a straw, spoon, spork or do you just chug it down.

Personally i love licking them off a hot girl's titties!
 

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talk about a freakin' chump. Dude, if she was interested in you, she wouldnt be giving u bs. Girls that are interested will drop anything to go on a date with a guy they like.

End of Story Chump !
 
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Originally posted by Wiesman44
... Girls that are interested will drop anything to go on a date with a guy they like.
Even drop their panties, right? "oops, look what just fell down" :D
 

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
talk about a freakin' chump. Dude, if she was interested in you, she wouldnt be giving u bs. Girls that are interested will drop anything to go on a date with a guy they like.

End of Story Chump !
ok i wouldn't go that far.. but you got the point
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nice, a guy asks for help and all most people here can do is bust his balls. Well, **** I’m going to bust your balls to but I’ll tell you what went wrong.

Shezz - You said all the wrong things to this girl in the way you asked her out, gave away you manhood in cupped hands. Anyway, you need to understand where women (not *****s) are coming from in the dating world. They want a man, first and foremost, that is funny, mysterious, and dominant in life in some way, and is authentic...and by authentic I mean "He really IS a big bad biker, not just pretending to be!"

Have you displayed these things to her in the past? Probably not, and if you did she wasn’t digging that angle.

Anyway, REGARDLESS of whether or not you ARE these following things that she was probably thinking...here is the scoop as I see it.

Me: "Look i know your goin thru a bad time atm,
She thinks - Oh, he's relating to my emotions like a friend, must be an emotional tampon. how SWEEEET! (puke)

"but i like u"

*slaps head* oh man, never tell a girl you like her, EVER! It can't possibly increase her attraction for you! So why do it??

She thinks: If I ever liked you even a little, you just killed the mystery, since I don't have to chase you to get you, now all I have to do is toss my nose in the air and you'll be beggin for my approval. (However since she said I'll think about it that's called "i don't want to be flat out RUDE so give me time to come up with a bettter excuse) - or maybe she just felt awkward because she doesn't like you all that much.

"so i guarantee that a nite out with me will make you feel a whole lot better - GUARAN - damn - TEED!!"

Dude, guaran - damn - teed? Who are you busta rhymes? and who are these women that you think will respond to something like that?

This may seem harsh, but really, you nee it.

A better thing to say would have been "I'm going to X club Friday night (I already have plans regardless of you), some of my friends are coming along and they are really cool and sociable with people they don't know (I have a life, the ppl I know will be cool and you'll be comfortable around them), we are going to have great time! (fun, fun, fun!) you should come along, everyone’s meeting at my place around 8pm" (but if you don't, no big deal to me!)

BUT, keep in mind that you probably didn’t succeed with the girl because she DIDN’T like you as most people have said.
 
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