frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
please tell me this is a joke Shezzler!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What does this mean (apart from the obvious)
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
oh god, dude it means she'll think about it c'ya tomorrow.
this is the second post, with the same stuff in it. either this girl is playing a game of hard to get or she's an AW.
your supplmenting her need for attention with your flirting etc.. girls with there head on straight or ACTUALLY LIKE you will not say
"i'll think about it"
if they like you, they'll either tell you WHY they can't and offer up another time, OR they'll go out with you
this is the second post, with the same stuff in it. either this girl is playing a game of hard to get or she's an AW.
your supplmenting her need for attention with your flirting etc.. girls with there head on straight or ACTUALLY LIKE you will not say
"i'll think about it"
if they like you, they'll either tell you WHY they can't and offer up another time, OR they'll go out with you
Jake-inator
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I just wasted 2 minutes of my life reading that...
spider_007
Master Don Juan
YAP!!!!!!!!!!!!
do you even have this girls NUMBER yet? i mean that can be a perfect test of how hot or cold she is to you,
if you call her and she never calls back, if your th eonly one calling, if you leave her a voicemail and she never returns it etc..
i mean jesus..
if you call her and she never calls back, if your th eonly one calling, if you leave her a voicemail and she never returns it etc..
i mean jesus..
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Mmmmm MILKSHAKES!!!!
Yea straws are great for milkshakes.
Speaking of which... I'm hijacking this thread and actually making it interesting.
This is what you get for wasting my time.
List your favorite milk shake flavors guys!!
My favorites include: Oreo, Strawberry, Banana, Cherry.
Mmmm strawberry banana is a good one too
Also how do you eat them?
Do you use a straw, spoon, spork or do you just chug it down.
Personally i love licking them off a hot girl's titties!
Yea straws are great for milkshakes.
Speaking of which... I'm hijacking this thread and actually making it interesting.
This is what you get for wasting my time.
List your favorite milk shake flavors guys!!
My favorites include: Oreo, Strawberry, Banana, Cherry.
Mmmm strawberry banana is a good one too
Also how do you eat them?
Do you use a straw, spoon, spork or do you just chug it down.
Personally i love licking them off a hot girl's titties!
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Even drop their panties, right? "oops, look what just fell down"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Qmanchoo
Don Juan
Nice, a guy asks for help and all most people here can do is bust his balls. Well, **** I’m going to bust your balls to but I’ll tell you what went wrong.
Shezz - You said all the wrong things to this girl in the way you asked her out, gave away you manhood in cupped hands. Anyway, you need to understand where women (not *****s) are coming from in the dating world. They want a man, first and foremost, that is funny, mysterious, and dominant in life in some way, and is authentic...and by authentic I mean "He really IS a big bad biker, not just pretending to be!"
Have you displayed these things to her in the past? Probably not, and if you did she wasn’t digging that angle.
Anyway, REGARDLESS of whether or not you ARE these following things that she was probably thinking...here is the scoop as I see it.
Me: "Look i know your goin thru a bad time atm,
She thinks - Oh, he's relating to my emotions like a friend, must be an emotional tampon. how SWEEEET! (puke)
"but i like u"
*slaps head* oh man, never tell a girl you like her, EVER! It can't possibly increase her attraction for you! So why do it??
She thinks: If I ever liked you even a little, you just killed the mystery, since I don't have to chase you to get you, now all I have to do is toss my nose in the air and you'll be beggin for my approval. (However since she said I'll think about it that's called "i don't want to be flat out RUDE so give me time to come up with a bettter excuse) - or maybe she just felt awkward because she doesn't like you all that much.
"so i guarantee that a nite out with me will make you feel a whole lot better - GUARAN - damn - TEED!!"
Dude, guaran - damn - teed? Who are you busta rhymes? and who are these women that you think will respond to something like that?
This may seem harsh, but really, you nee it.
A better thing to say would have been "I'm going to X club Friday night (I already have plans regardless of you), some of my friends are coming along and they are really cool and sociable with people they don't know (I have a life, the ppl I know will be cool and you'll be comfortable around them), we are going to have great time! (fun, fun, fun!) you should come along, everyone’s meeting at my place around 8pm" (but if you don't, no big deal to me!)
BUT, keep in mind that you probably didn’t succeed with the girl because she DIDN’T like you as most people have said.
Shezz - You said all the wrong things to this girl in the way you asked her out, gave away you manhood in cupped hands. Anyway, you need to understand where women (not *****s) are coming from in the dating world. They want a man, first and foremost, that is funny, mysterious, and dominant in life in some way, and is authentic...and by authentic I mean "He really IS a big bad biker, not just pretending to be!"
Have you displayed these things to her in the past? Probably not, and if you did she wasn’t digging that angle.
Anyway, REGARDLESS of whether or not you ARE these following things that she was probably thinking...here is the scoop as I see it.
Me: "Look i know your goin thru a bad time atm,
She thinks - Oh, he's relating to my emotions like a friend, must be an emotional tampon. how SWEEEET! (puke)
"but i like u"
*slaps head* oh man, never tell a girl you like her, EVER! It can't possibly increase her attraction for you! So why do it??
She thinks: If I ever liked you even a little, you just killed the mystery, since I don't have to chase you to get you, now all I have to do is toss my nose in the air and you'll be beggin for my approval. (However since she said I'll think about it that's called "i don't want to be flat out RUDE so give me time to come up with a bettter excuse) - or maybe she just felt awkward because she doesn't like you all that much.
"so i guarantee that a nite out with me will make you feel a whole lot better - GUARAN - damn - TEED!!"
Dude, guaran - damn - teed? Who are you busta rhymes? and who are these women that you think will respond to something like that?
This may seem harsh, but really, you nee it.
A better thing to say would have been "I'm going to X club Friday night (I already have plans regardless of you), some of my friends are coming along and they are really cool and sociable with people they don't know (I have a life, the ppl I know will be cool and you'll be comfortable around them), we are going to have great time! (fun, fun, fun!) you should come along, everyone’s meeting at my place around 8pm" (but if you don't, no big deal to me!)
BUT, keep in mind that you probably didn’t succeed with the girl because she DIDN’T like you as most people have said.