"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what does she mean when she says..?

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i've been flirting with this girl that i know through friends for a week and she's been showing lots of interest( asking for my msn address and telephone number).

we chat on msn messenger and she says that i am very random (i always tell her i have to go when we'r having fun chatting, thus ending the conversationl)

she also says that i have this bottomless reservoirs of question and she wonders how i came up with those questions. ( i went on to tell her i have this paper that contains a list of questions and she laughs)

i tease her alot and she would always say why i am so mean to her..

am i on the right track ?? and what does it mean when she says those things? thanks alot..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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saminex

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get a set of balls and ask her on a date if you like her. If she says no, who gives a **** its not like you work with her.
 

Triple T

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DJDamage said:
She likes you alot, ask her out already. Every girl who said "why are you so mean to me?" wanted to hook up with me.
Haha, same here. :D
Basically means something along the lines of "Why are you so different than all the other guys? I like!"
 

AKA FLEX

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DJDamage said:
She likes you alot, ask her out already. Every girl who said "why are you so mean to me?" wanted to hook up with me.
Same here. You (the OP) have a clear path to the endzone here. The only thing that will stop you is if you don't take the ball and run with it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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