"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what does she mean when she says..?

tokyou

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i've been flirting with this girl that i know through friends for a week and she's been showing lots of interest( asking for my msn address and telephone number).

we chat on msn messenger and she says that i am very random (i always tell her i have to go when we'r having fun chatting, thus ending the conversationl)

she also says that i have this bottomless reservoirs of question and she wonders how i came up with those questions. ( i went on to tell her i have this paper that contains a list of questions and she laughs)

i tease her alot and she would always say why i am so mean to her..

am i on the right track ?? and what does it mean when she says those things? thanks alot..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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saminex

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get a set of balls and ask her on a date if you like her. If she says no, who gives a **** its not like you work with her.
 

Triple T

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DJDamage said:
She likes you alot, ask her out already. Every girl who said "why are you so mean to me?" wanted to hook up with me.
Haha, same here. :D
Basically means something along the lines of "Why are you so different than all the other guys? I like!"
 

AKA FLEX

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DJDamage said:
She likes you alot, ask her out already. Every girl who said "why are you so mean to me?" wanted to hook up with me.
Same here. You (the OP) have a clear path to the endzone here. The only thing that will stop you is if you don't take the ball and run with it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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