"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what does she mean when she says..?

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i've been flirting with this girl that i know through friends for a week and she's been showing lots of interest( asking for my msn address and telephone number).

we chat on msn messenger and she says that i am very random (i always tell her i have to go when we'r having fun chatting, thus ending the conversationl)

she also says that i have this bottomless reservoirs of question and she wonders how i came up with those questions. ( i went on to tell her i have this paper that contains a list of questions and she laughs)

i tease her alot and she would always say why i am so mean to her..

am i on the right track ?? and what does it mean when she says those things? thanks alot..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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saminex

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get a set of balls and ask her on a date if you like her. If she says no, who gives a **** its not like you work with her.
 

Triple T

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DJDamage said:
She likes you alot, ask her out already. Every girl who said "why are you so mean to me?" wanted to hook up with me.
Haha, same here. :D
Basically means something along the lines of "Why are you so different than all the other guys? I like!"
 

AKA FLEX

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DJDamage said:
She likes you alot, ask her out already. Every girl who said "why are you so mean to me?" wanted to hook up with me.
Same here. You (the OP) have a clear path to the endzone here. The only thing that will stop you is if you don't take the ball and run with it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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