"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what does she mean when she says..?

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i've been flirting with this girl that i know through friends for a week and she's been showing lots of interest( asking for my msn address and telephone number).

we chat on msn messenger and she says that i am very random (i always tell her i have to go when we'r having fun chatting, thus ending the conversationl)

she also says that i have this bottomless reservoirs of question and she wonders how i came up with those questions. ( i went on to tell her i have this paper that contains a list of questions and she laughs)

i tease her alot and she would always say why i am so mean to her..

am i on the right track ?? and what does it mean when she says those things? thanks alot..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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get a set of balls and ask her on a date if you like her. If she says no, who gives a **** its not like you work with her.
 
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DJDamage said:
She likes you alot, ask her out already. Every girl who said "why are you so mean to me?" wanted to hook up with me.
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Haha, same here. :D
Basically means something along the lines of "Why are you so different than all the other guys? I like!"
 
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DJDamage said:
She likes you alot, ask her out already. Every girl who said "why are you so mean to me?" wanted to hook up with me.
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Same here. You (the OP) have a clear path to the endzone here. The only thing that will stop you is if you don't take the ball and run with it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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