IHeartTrance
Don Juan
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I'll start first by saying good looks, confident and a lot of money :rockon:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How many chicks do you make a sincere effort to holla during the week?You should also consider changing your wardrobe, start with a smoking jacket like the one ya boy is sporting.Dhoulmagus said:Luck
Totally agree. It's your overall presents what they go for more than anything (confidence, charisma, humor, ect...).jay07 said:Good looks- nope. See average dudes with hot chicks all the time. Cut body will help out average/below average face.
Confidence- yep.
Lots of money - nope.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Most of my white friends struggle pretty hard too. It's a pain in the living on a campus with mostly 8s and knowing they are all unattainable. I suffer from sexual frustration, but the issue is the cure to that lola.Maximus Rex said:How many chicks do you make a sincere effort to holla during the week?You should also consider changing your wardrobe, start with a smoking jacket like the one ya boy is sporting.
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Also, (to quote Antonio Centeno of www.realmenrealstyle.com,) what is your why? Other than coming here every day crying about "racist southern belles." Dude owes a Porsche and is in a frat at a SEC school and still can't get laid. Dhoulmagus, don't you think it's time that you did an introspection in order to figure out exactly why chicks avoid you like a terminally person with full blown AIDS?
This. Game trumps everything. No it cant work miracles but it'll do more towards picking up women than anything else.devilkingx2 said:game and everything else are inversely proportional to getting any girl
so the more game you have, the less money, looks, status, etc. you need and the less game you have the more necessary it becomes to be an investment banker who drives a ferrari
betas on wallstreet are banging the same hot girls as alpha's who work at the supermarket
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dude, the chicks on your campus aren't mostly 8's, I can assure you of that. Dhoulmagus, I'm going to ask you a series of questions.Dhoulmagus said:Most of my white friends struggle pretty hard too. It's a pain in the living on a campus with mostly 8s and knowing they are all unattainable. I suffer from sexual frustration, but the issue is the cure to that lola.
Dude, the chicks on your campus aren't mostly 8's, I can assure you of that. Dhoulmagus, I'm going to ask you a series of questions.Dhoulmagus said:Most of my white friends struggle pretty hard too. It's a pain in the living on a campus with mostly 8s and knowing they are all unattainable. I suffer from sexual frustration, but the issue is the cure to that lola.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.