IHeartTrance
Don Juan
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I'll start first by saying good looks, confident and a lot of money :rockon:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How many chicks do you make a sincere effort to holla during the week?You should also consider changing your wardrobe, start with a smoking jacket like the one ya boy is sporting.Dhoulmagus said:Luck
Totally agree. It's your overall presents what they go for more than anything (confidence, charisma, humor, ect...).jay07 said:Good looks- nope. See average dudes with hot chicks all the time. Cut body will help out average/below average face.
Confidence- yep.
Lots of money - nope.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most of my white friends struggle pretty hard too. It's a pain in the living on a campus with mostly 8s and knowing they are all unattainable. I suffer from sexual frustration, but the issue is the cure to that lola.Maximus Rex said:How many chicks do you make a sincere effort to holla during the week?You should also consider changing your wardrobe, start with a smoking jacket like the one ya boy is sporting.
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Also, (to quote Antonio Centeno of www.realmenrealstyle.com,) what is your why? Other than coming here every day crying about "racist southern belles." Dude owes a Porsche and is in a frat at a SEC school and still can't get laid. Dhoulmagus, don't you think it's time that you did an introspection in order to figure out exactly why chicks avoid you like a terminally person with full blown AIDS?
This. Game trumps everything. No it cant work miracles but it'll do more towards picking up women than anything else.devilkingx2 said:game and everything else are inversely proportional to getting any girl
so the more game you have, the less money, looks, status, etc. you need and the less game you have the more necessary it becomes to be an investment banker who drives a ferrari
betas on wallstreet are banging the same hot girls as alpha's who work at the supermarket
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dude, the chicks on your campus aren't mostly 8's, I can assure you of that. Dhoulmagus, I'm going to ask you a series of questions.Dhoulmagus said:Most of my white friends struggle pretty hard too. It's a pain in the living on a campus with mostly 8s and knowing they are all unattainable. I suffer from sexual frustration, but the issue is the cure to that lola.
Dude, the chicks on your campus aren't mostly 8's, I can assure you of that. Dhoulmagus, I'm going to ask you a series of questions.Dhoulmagus said:Most of my white friends struggle pretty hard too. It's a pain in the living on a campus with mostly 8s and knowing they are all unattainable. I suffer from sexual frustration, but the issue is the cure to that lola.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.