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Don Juan
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I'll start first by saying good looks, confident and a lot of money :rockon:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How many chicks do you make a sincere effort to holla during the week?You should also consider changing your wardrobe, start with a smoking jacket like the one ya boy is sporting.Dhoulmagus said:Luck
Totally agree. It's your overall presents what they go for more than anything (confidence, charisma, humor, ect...).jay07 said:Good looks- nope. See average dudes with hot chicks all the time. Cut body will help out average/below average face.
Confidence- yep.
Lots of money - nope.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most of my white friends struggle pretty hard too. It's a pain in the living on a campus with mostly 8s and knowing they are all unattainable. I suffer from sexual frustration, but the issue is the cure to that lola.Maximus Rex said:How many chicks do you make a sincere effort to holla during the week?You should also consider changing your wardrobe, start with a smoking jacket like the one ya boy is sporting.
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Also, (to quote Antonio Centeno of www.realmenrealstyle.com,) what is your why? Other than coming here every day crying about "racist southern belles." Dude owes a Porsche and is in a frat at a SEC school and still can't get laid. Dhoulmagus, don't you think it's time that you did an introspection in order to figure out exactly why chicks avoid you like a terminally person with full blown AIDS?
This. Game trumps everything. No it cant work miracles but it'll do more towards picking up women than anything else.devilkingx2 said:game and everything else are inversely proportional to getting any girl
so the more game you have, the less money, looks, status, etc. you need and the less game you have the more necessary it becomes to be an investment banker who drives a ferrari
betas on wallstreet are banging the same hot girls as alpha's who work at the supermarket
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dude, the chicks on your campus aren't mostly 8's, I can assure you of that. Dhoulmagus, I'm going to ask you a series of questions.Dhoulmagus said:Most of my white friends struggle pretty hard too. It's a pain in the living on a campus with mostly 8s and knowing they are all unattainable. I suffer from sexual frustration, but the issue is the cure to that lola.
Dude, the chicks on your campus aren't mostly 8's, I can assure you of that. Dhoulmagus, I'm going to ask you a series of questions.Dhoulmagus said:Most of my white friends struggle pretty hard too. It's a pain in the living on a campus with mostly 8s and knowing they are all unattainable. I suffer from sexual frustration, but the issue is the cure to that lola.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.