IHeartTrance
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I'll start first by saying good looks, confident and a lot of money :rockon:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What does it take to get a hot girlfriend?
- Thread starter IHeartTrance
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Omnipotens Maximus Rex's Law of Getting Hot Babe 8's and Up
Rex's Law of Getting Hot Babe 8's and up states in order to have sex with and/or relationships with HB 8's and up, then you should only holla at HB 8's and up.
Rex's Law of Getting Hot Babe 8's and up states in order to have sex with and/or relationships with HB 8's and up, then you should only holla at HB 8's and up.
zekko
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Luck and/or perseverence.
Not perseverence with one girl necessarily, I mean perseverence with hot girls in general. When I say luck, I mean maybe you will accidentally connect with one. Of course it helps to have some value (looks, money, status, game).
Not perseverence with one girl necessarily, I mean perseverence with hot girls in general. When I say luck, I mean maybe you will accidentally connect with one. Of course it helps to have some value (looks, money, status, game).
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
game and everything else are inversely proportional to getting any girl
so the more game you have, the less money, looks, status, etc. you need and the less game you have the more necessary it becomes to be an investment banker who drives a ferrari
betas on wallstreet are banging the same hot girls as alpha's who work at the supermarket
so the more game you have, the less money, looks, status, etc. you need and the less game you have the more necessary it becomes to be an investment banker who drives a ferrari
betas on wallstreet are banging the same hot girls as alpha's who work at the supermarket
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dhoulmagus
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Luck
Maximus Rex
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Just Curious
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Also, (to quote Antonio Centeno of www.realmenrealstyle.com,) what is your why? Other than coming here every day crying about "racist southern belles." Dude owes a Porsche and is in a frat at a SEC school and still can't get laid. Dhoulmagus, don't you think it's time that you did an introspection in order to figure out exactly why chicks avoid you like a terminally person with full blown AIDS?
How many chicks do you make a sincere effort to holla during the week?You should also consider changing your wardrobe, start with a smoking jacket like the one ya boy is sporting.Dhoulmagus said:
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Also, (to quote Antonio Centeno of www.realmenrealstyle.com,) what is your why? Other than coming here every day crying about "racist southern belles." Dude owes a Porsche and is in a frat at a SEC school and still can't get laid. Dhoulmagus, don't you think it's time that you did an introspection in order to figure out exactly why chicks avoid you like a terminally person with full blown AIDS?
JaegerPilot217
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High status, very confident, in shape
I'll sum it up to you:
- Be HAPPY, not for women, for your own sake. Even if you had a bad day, just accept these feelings and do something that makes you happy. Happiness attracts people. its infectious. Some dudes think if you act all tuff and angry they'll be more attractive, big NO. Watch how Mystery & Styles enter a room, with a huge smile on their faces. Don't over due it thou, you'll look like a clown.
- Confidence, you have to have an abundance mentality, she's the lucky one that had the chance to talk to a real man like you, not the other way around. There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. Watch out for it. Women adore confident men.
- Dominance, you are the man, you lead. You choose where to go on a date, if she has another idea just accept it and do it. NEVER EVER say " what do you want to do ? " " where do you want to eat ? " all that BS. You are The MAN for god's sake. Act.
- Be passionate about your hobby, work, gym .. etc. Dont say it, just SHOW it. If you have a goal to be the best at your sport, do it with all of your might and never think about the outcome. CEO, high GPA, best shooter, or mafia king, do it.
- Looks never counts, I am a really good looking guy, When I was a total AFC girls would through themselves to me, but as soon as they know me they dumb or cheat on me because of my pvssy bahavior.
I also know a guy who's not good looking at all, he looks like a rapist ( he has a mastache and cant grow facial hair ) but he has the hottest babes I have seen in my life.
- Dress well. Be stylish but not come out as gay. Have a manly haircut or grow your hair and be masculine. Whatever style that suits you.
Wear manly clothes, not silly teenager stuff like shorts and T-shirts unless you are in a beach or outdooring. Buy GQ or Enterprise to see whats the styles now.
- Be well groomed. But dont over do it. You want pvssies not cokes.
- Workout. for your health, be rip and lean. I dont recommend being puffed. Believe me women hate puffed, overly masculine men. it gross them out. But have some cut muscles that shows.
- Eat well, you'll feel better and more confidant
The secret is to do it for your OWN SAKE. Not to get women. Believe me they'll come along
- Be HAPPY, not for women, for your own sake. Even if you had a bad day, just accept these feelings and do something that makes you happy. Happiness attracts people. its infectious. Some dudes think if you act all tuff and angry they'll be more attractive, big NO. Watch how Mystery & Styles enter a room, with a huge smile on their faces. Don't over due it thou, you'll look like a clown.
- Confidence, you have to have an abundance mentality, she's the lucky one that had the chance to talk to a real man like you, not the other way around. There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. Watch out for it. Women adore confident men.
- Dominance, you are the man, you lead. You choose where to go on a date, if she has another idea just accept it and do it. NEVER EVER say " what do you want to do ? " " where do you want to eat ? " all that BS. You are The MAN for god's sake. Act.
- Be passionate about your hobby, work, gym .. etc. Dont say it, just SHOW it. If you have a goal to be the best at your sport, do it with all of your might and never think about the outcome. CEO, high GPA, best shooter, or mafia king, do it.
- Looks never counts, I am a really good looking guy, When I was a total AFC girls would through themselves to me, but as soon as they know me they dumb or cheat on me because of my pvssy bahavior.
I also know a guy who's not good looking at all, he looks like a rapist ( he has a mastache and cant grow facial hair ) but he has the hottest babes I have seen in my life.
- Dress well. Be stylish but not come out as gay. Have a manly haircut or grow your hair and be masculine. Whatever style that suits you.
Wear manly clothes, not silly teenager stuff like shorts and T-shirts unless you are in a beach or outdooring. Buy GQ or Enterprise to see whats the styles now.
- Be well groomed. But dont over do it. You want pvssies not cokes.
- Workout. for your health, be rip and lean. I dont recommend being puffed. Believe me women hate puffed, overly masculine men. it gross them out. But have some cut muscles that shows.
- Eat well, you'll feel better and more confidant
The secret is to do it for your OWN SAKE. Not to get women. Believe me they'll come along
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dhoulmagus
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Most of my white friends struggle pretty hard too. It's a pain in the living on a campus with mostly 8s and knowing they are all unattainable. I suffer from sexual frustration, but the issue is the cure to that lola.Maximus Rex said:
nismo-4
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Game, looks, and luck.
Money helps too. And status.
Money helps too. And status.
GotED?
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Hot girlfriend is way over rated.
Men who have been there knows how much craziness and BULLSH!t comes with hotness.
Only AFC-like men who hasn't got their arse licked by a HB9+ dreams of going there because they have poor self esteem and need that hot showcase on his arms to validate his own worth.
Exodus
Men who have been there knows how much craziness and BULLSH!t comes with hotness.
Only AFC-like men who hasn't got their arse licked by a HB9+ dreams of going there because they have poor self esteem and need that hot showcase on his arms to validate his own worth.
Exodus
Tictac
Banned
Practice.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Maximus Rex
Banned
They're Not All 8's Dude
1) What do you want from all of this?
2) How many women do you approach a day?
3) How do you view yourself?
5) What is your wardrobe like?
6) What is your body type?
7) How tall are you?
8) How much do you weigh?
9) Do you do go to the dentist regularly?
10) Do you feel as is you're entitled to have hot and attractive women in your life?
11) You do realize that since you essentially suck at hollerin' at chicks that you have to develop a philosophy and a mindset that will help you achieve those goals?
12) Are you willing to put in the man hours, (meaning subject yourself to rejection, humiliation, and rude behavior from chicks in order to gain proficiency?
13) Do you know how to dance?
14) What do you have to offer a chick?
15) Why should a chick choose you?
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Dude, the chicks on your campus aren't mostly 8's, I can assure you of that. Dhoulmagus, I'm going to ask you a series of questions.Dhoulmagus said:
1) What do you want from all of this?
2) How many women do you approach a day?
3) How do you view yourself?
5) What is your wardrobe like?
6) What is your body type?
7) How tall are you?
8) How much do you weigh?
9) Do you do go to the dentist regularly?
10) Do you feel as is you're entitled to have hot and attractive women in your life?
11) You do realize that since you essentially suck at hollerin' at chicks that you have to develop a philosophy and a mindset that will help you achieve those goals?
12) Are you willing to put in the man hours, (meaning subject yourself to rejection, humiliation, and rude behavior from chicks in order to gain proficiency?
13) Do you know how to dance?
14) What do you have to offer a chick?
15) Why should a chick choose you?
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Maximus Rex
Banned
They're Not All 8's Dude
1) What do you want from all of this?
2) How many women do you approach a day?
3) How do you view yourself?
5) What is your wardrobe like?
6) What is your body type?
7) How tall are you?
8) How much do you weigh?
9) Do you do go to the dentist regularly?
10) Do you feel as is you're entitled to have hot and attractive women in your life?
11) You do realize that since you essentially suck at hollerin' at chicks that you have to develop a philosophy and a mindset that will help you achieve those goals?
12) Are you willing to put in the man hours, (meaning subject yourself to rejection, humiliation, and rude behavior from chicks in order to gain proficiency?
13) Do you know how to dance?
14) What do you have to offer a chick?
15) Why should a chick choose you?
Dude, the chicks on your campus aren't mostly 8's, I can assure you of that. Dhoulmagus, I'm going to ask you a series of questions.Dhoulmagus said:
1) What do you want from all of this?
2) How many women do you approach a day?
3) How do you view yourself?
5) What is your wardrobe like?
6) What is your body type?
7) How tall are you?
8) How much do you weigh?
9) Do you do go to the dentist regularly?
10) Do you feel as is you're entitled to have hot and attractive women in your life?
11) You do realize that since you essentially suck at hollerin' at chicks that you have to develop a philosophy and a mindset that will help you achieve those goals?
12) Are you willing to put in the man hours, (meaning subject yourself to rejection, humiliation, and rude behavior from chicks in order to gain proficiency?
13) Do you know how to dance?
14) What do you have to offer a chick?
15) Why should a chick choose you?
Don't expect to be dating 8s if you aren't an 8 yourself.
Fortunately for you, men can always raise their value. If you've been here long enough, then you know how to raise your value, you just have to be honest with yourself.
Fortunately for you, men can always raise their value. If you've been here long enough, then you know how to raise your value, you just have to be honest with yourself.
Mike32ct
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tall with hair
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average height with hair and broad shoulders and/or stocky build
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average height with hair and broad shoulders and/or stocky build
If you're not hot you can't expect to get someone hotter. You can pull them through social circle game but not cold approach. If you were a girl, you'd want to sleep with the hottest guy around. As guys we want the same and can't be hypocrites. Social circle + looks is key.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.