You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This is true. Also, the whole game of society has changed. That does not mean that it is harder though.kingsam said:a lot of the "elites" nowdays have family connections they make good use of
Also, those "elites" are blue blooded, as in oxygen deprived. They are dull, and strive to be perfect. Whatever happened to red blooded people?kingsam said:a lot of the "elites" nowdays have family connections they make good use of
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Elites have always had family connections. That is the whole point of being an elite. All those men listed were from elite families. They got to the top with connections (via the family).kingsam said:a lot of the "elites" nowdays have family connections they make good use of
Big J that was a boring response, i expect more from you .....BigJimbo said:Elites have always had family connections. That is the whole point of being an elite. All those men listed were from elite families. They got to the top with connections (via the family).
BigJimbo said:Elites have always had family connections. That is the whole point of being an elite. All those men listed were from elite families. They got to the top with connections (via the family).
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.