I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
This is true. Also, the whole game of society has changed. That does not mean that it is harder though.kingsam said:a lot of the "elites" nowdays have family connections they make good use of
Also, those "elites" are blue blooded, as in oxygen deprived. They are dull, and strive to be perfect. Whatever happened to red blooded people?kingsam said:a lot of the "elites" nowdays have family connections they make good use of
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Elites have always had family connections. That is the whole point of being an elite. All those men listed were from elite families. They got to the top with connections (via the family).kingsam said:a lot of the "elites" nowdays have family connections they make good use of
Big J that was a boring response, i expect more from you .....BigJimbo said:Elites have always had family connections. That is the whole point of being an elite. All those men listed were from elite families. They got to the top with connections (via the family).
BigJimbo said:Elites have always had family connections. That is the whole point of being an elite. All those men listed were from elite families. They got to the top with connections (via the family).
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.