"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What does it take to be influential?
- Thread starter Plinco
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Plinco
Master Don Juan
kingsam
Master Don Juan
Big J that was a boring response, i expect more from you .....BigJimbo said:
freshprince
Don Juan
BigJimbo said:
That is not necessarily true dude. They are many people in history that became prominent people of history without elite family backgrounds, for example Anne Frank-, Confucius, Martin Luther just to name a few (not Martin Luther king) a different martin who argued with the pope, searching for religious truth and creating a new kind of Christianity called Protestantism ...( I have very old book given to me by my uncle that teaches about this fight against the pope)
and many more ppl who are still influential figures.
freshprince
Don Juan
"Confidence, determination, knowledge and interpersonal skills"
"Credibility (reputation) it never hurts to have that on your side and credible
breakthrough ideas or insights that capture the general imagination".
"Consistency and courage."
"This means, you are guided by principles,
that you walk the talk, and that you are not
afraid to listen and consider."
links
* http://jd2-thegreatlight.blogspot.com
* http://tnemeganam102.blogspot.com
"Integrity. Values. Drive. Passion. Credibility."
"It doesn't take anything, you are influential by nature. Just by being there you influence people, the only thing you need to know is how you do it and the only thing that it takes is to watch and see your impact and change it if needed. You have all the sources in you to be more influential."
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.