"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anteater16

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I recently asked a girl out. She was a close friend and i worked hard at the friend zone and getting out. More kino, more flirting and i was more sexual. All my major approaches didnt spark a negative reaction. So i asked her out. She said our future together was in "the maybe zone" and to wait for her to think about it. She wants me to wait for our formal which is about a month and a bit. I was taken back so i did some foolish things. Im trying to regain control here. I'm thinking of spending less time with her a bit more and upping everything else as well. She has shown clear I.O.Is and i am not mistaken. Im also going to bring her very long decision making date back a bit to a friends party about to weeks away.

So what does her trying to decide mean to me. The maybe zone may as well still be the friend zone? is this her transitional faze? is this girl just saying **** to keep me around or is she f@$%ing with me. any advice would be appreciated.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FreshMenTank

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She seem uninterested, if she need a month to think about it, thats a siqn. next her, unless you see positive change comin from her. But don't sit around and wait for to long.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MrP said:
Ask some other girls out and see how she feels about you after that. :)
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This. That was how I got my oneitis back in the day.
I only realized years later it was a jealousy thing that
did it.
 
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