"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I recently asked a girl out. She was a close friend and i worked hard at the friend zone and getting out. More kino, more flirting and i was more sexual. All my major approaches didnt spark a negative reaction. So i asked her out. She said our future together was in "the maybe zone" and to wait for her to think about it. She wants me to wait for our formal which is about a month and a bit. I was taken back so i did some foolish things. Im trying to regain control here. I'm thinking of spending less time with her a bit more and upping everything else as well. She has shown clear I.O.Is and i am not mistaken. Im also going to bring her very long decision making date back a bit to a friends party about to weeks away.

So what does her trying to decide mean to me. The maybe zone may as well still be the friend zone? is this her transitional faze? is this girl just saying **** to keep me around or is she f@$%ing with me. any advice would be appreciated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She seem uninterested, if she need a month to think about it, thats a siqn. next her, unless you see positive change comin from her. But don't sit around and wait for to long.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MrP said:
Ask some other girls out and see how she feels about you after that. :)
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This. That was how I got my oneitis back in the day.
I only realized years later it was a jealousy thing that
did it.
 
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