"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I recently asked a girl out. She was a close friend and i worked hard at the friend zone and getting out. More kino, more flirting and i was more sexual. All my major approaches didnt spark a negative reaction. So i asked her out. She said our future together was in "the maybe zone" and to wait for her to think about it. She wants me to wait for our formal which is about a month and a bit. I was taken back so i did some foolish things. Im trying to regain control here. I'm thinking of spending less time with her a bit more and upping everything else as well. She has shown clear I.O.Is and i am not mistaken. Im also going to bring her very long decision making date back a bit to a friends party about to weeks away.

So what does her trying to decide mean to me. The maybe zone may as well still be the friend zone? is this her transitional faze? is this girl just saying **** to keep me around or is she f@$%ing with me. any advice would be appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She seem uninterested, if she need a month to think about it, thats a siqn. next her, unless you see positive change comin from her. But don't sit around and wait for to long.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MrP said:
Ask some other girls out and see how she feels about you after that. :)
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This. That was how I got my oneitis back in the day.
I only realized years later it was a jealousy thing that
did it.
 
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