What does it mean

[Anteater16]

I recently asked a girl out. She was a close friend and i worked hard at the friend zone and getting out. More kino, more flirting and i was more sexual. All my major approaches didnt spark a negative reaction. So i asked her out. She said our future together was in "the maybe zone" and to wait for her to think about it. She wants me to wait for our formal which is about a month and a bit. I was taken back so i did some foolish things. Im trying to regain control here. I'm thinking of spending less time with her a bit more and upping everything else as well. She has shown clear I.O.Is and i am not mistaken. Im also going to bring her very long decision making date back a bit to a friends party about to weeks away.

So what does her trying to decide mean to me. The maybe zone may as well still be the friend zone? is this her transitional faze? is this girl just saying **** to keep me around or is she f@$%ing with me. any advice would be appreciated.

 

[Blurry]

The maybe zone means no.

 

[Nino-Tk]

Blurry is right...I don't think she sees you in that way, I know you should judge by her actions and not her words but I think she playin games.

 

[MrP]

Ask some other girls out and see how she feels about you after that.

 

[FreshMenTank]

She seem uninterested, if she need a month to think about it, thats a siqn. next her, unless you see positive change comin from her. But don't sit around and wait for to long.

 

[jtlancer]

Ask some other girls out and see how she feels about you after that.

This. That was how I got my oneitis back in the day.
I only realized years later it was a jealousy thing that
did it.