You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
you have to pay attention as a seducer though. You cannot just follow your own gameplan come hell or highwater. Coming out of a relationship can mean nothing, but it can also allude to multiple things. Maybe she was the one who got cheated on or something and she feels insecure. Then as a seducer you make her feel secure. Maybe she was caged and controlled in her relationship... you offer her freedom now. Maybe the guy never committed full to her... then you offer her the illusion of commitment for the time being. etc etc.WesCottII said:When she says she broke up with her fiance, read that she's broke up with her fiance. Simple. Keep gaming as you would normally.
We'd go mad if we tried to analyse everything.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I see your point, but generally, my seductions DO follow a set pattern. I make her laugh, we have a brilliant time in each others company, and she wants to see me again if she wants more of the same.Microphone Fiend said:you have to pay attention as a seducer though. You cannot just follow your own gameplan come hell or highwater. Coming out of a relationship can mean nothing, but it can also allude to multiple things. Maybe she was the one who got cheated on or something and she feels insecure. Then as a seducer you make her feel secure. Maybe she was caged and controlled in her relationship... you offer her freedom now. Maybe the guy never committed full to her... then you offer her the illusion of commitment for the time being. etc etc.
The point is you cannot be an autonomous seducer. You would treat women the same if you know nothing about any of them, but once you have personal facts and beliefs, you'd be a fool to ignore them....
drmeathead said:when chicks talk about there ex pretend they arent even speaking...
:woo: "Danger Will Robinson, Danger!!!" :woo:gimmeyofonenumba said:I met a girl the other night and called her today, and talked a bit and set something up. At one point in the convo, she told me how she had just broke up with her ex-fiance, and later reffered to him as her fiance later on but corrected heself....
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.