"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what does it mean when a girl see you and she walks across the street?

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Hey guys does it mean a girl is scare of you if she is walking on the same sidewalk as you and she see you and walks across the street?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maybe she is shy. Maybe she was assaulted before. Maybe she felt like she looked ugly today. Maybe she had a diarrhea problem and didn't want you to smell her butt. Maybe she was afraid of you.

I wouldn't worry about it - it really could be anything.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Immaculate

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Originally posted by flexion_
Maybe she is shy. Maybe she was assaulted before. Maybe she felt like she looked ugly today. Maybe she had a diarrhea problem and didn't want you to smell her butt. Maybe she was afraid of you.

I wouldn't worry about it - it really could be anything.

^^^ LOL!!!!
 

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that your pants' zip is down and you forgot underwear?!
 

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She crossed the street because she needed to cross the street.
 

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Originally posted by flexion_
Maybe she had a diarrhea problem and didn't want you to smell her butt.
....i really wish you hadn't said that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ_in_making

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Originally posted by The Rev
She crossed the street because she needed to cross the street.
Yea. Why did the woman cross the road?

To get to the other side!!
 

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asian girls sometime do this to me:confused: Their friend must have warned them about me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Now, how the hell does a post this stupid get 15 reply's and the post's that are actually decent only getting 2? Now it's starting to annoy me.
 

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I just noticed dat LeviathanIYG had a good post im da only one dat replied dis guy asks a dumb question and he gets evri bodies opinon
 

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put her in check, and bust her balls for it... tell her u dont have to be scared... etc etc
 

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she cross the street because she wanted to take a dump under the tree lol lol ha ha ha ha..:D :crackup: and i looked lol :crackup:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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