johnnyhero79
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Hey guys does it mean a girl is scare of you if she is walking on the same sidewalk as you and she see you and walks across the street?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
what does it mean when a girl see you and she walks across the street?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
maybe she was uncomforatable of you staring at her ass
Smooth Player 056
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Uhhhhh.....check your uppper lip
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
Thanks guys
Maybe she is shy. Maybe she was assaulted before. Maybe she felt like she looked ugly today. Maybe she had a diarrhea problem and didn't want you to smell her butt. Maybe she was afraid of you.
I wouldn't worry about it - it really could be anything.
I wouldn't worry about it - it really could be anything.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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^^^ LOL!!!!
GuitarOnFire
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Maybe you looked like a freak/stalker?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Yea. Why did the woman cross the road?
To get to the other side!!
penkitten
Master Don Juan
duh, she went to catch a chicken
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asian girls sometime do this to me Their friend must have warned them about me.
Their friend must have warned them about me.Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
People cross streets all the time, trust me Ive seen it happen, Im sorry I cannot post scientific evidence.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Now, how the hell does a post this stupid get 15 reply's and the post's that are actually decent only getting 2? Now it's starting to annoy me.
ShakeItOff
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I just noticed dat LeviathanIYG had a good post im da only one dat replied dis guy asks a dumb question and he gets evri bodies opinon
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
Yeah just follow her so shell get comfortable with you.
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
she cross the street because she wanted to take a dump under the tree lol lol ha ha ha ha.. :crackup: and i looked lol :crackup:
:crackup: and i looked lol :crackup:"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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