johnnyhero79
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Hey guys does it mean a girl is scare of you if she is walking on the same sidewalk as you and she see you and walks across the street?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
what does it mean when a girl see you and she walks across the street?
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
spider_007
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maybe she was uncomforatable of you staring at her ass
Smooth Player 056
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Uhhhhh.....check your uppper lip
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
Thanks guys
Maybe she is shy. Maybe she was assaulted before. Maybe she felt like she looked ugly today. Maybe she had a diarrhea problem and didn't want you to smell her butt. Maybe she was afraid of you.
I wouldn't worry about it - it really could be anything.
I wouldn't worry about it - it really could be anything.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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^^^ LOL!!!!
GuitarOnFire
Senior Don Juan
Maybe you looked like a freak/stalker?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Yea. Why did the woman cross the road?
To get to the other side!!
penkitten
Master Don Juan
duh, she went to catch a chicken
SELF-MASTERY
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asian girls sometime do this to me Their friend must have warned them about me.
Their friend must have warned them about me.Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
People cross streets all the time, trust me Ive seen it happen, Im sorry I cannot post scientific evidence.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Now, how the hell does a post this stupid get 15 reply's and the post's that are actually decent only getting 2? Now it's starting to annoy me.
ShakeItOff
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I just noticed dat LeviathanIYG had a good post im da only one dat replied dis guy asks a dumb question and he gets evri bodies opinon
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
Yeah just follow her so shell get comfortable with you.
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
she cross the street because she wanted to take a dump under the tree lol lol ha ha ha ha.. :crackup: and i looked lol :crackup:
:crackup: and i looked lol :crackup:"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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