johnnyhero79
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Hey guys does it mean a girl is scare of you if she is walking on the same sidewalk as you and she see you and walks across the street?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
what does it mean when a girl see you and she walks across the street?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
maybe she was uncomforatable of you staring at her ass
Smooth Player 056
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Uhhhhh.....check your uppper lip
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
Thanks guys
Maybe she is shy. Maybe she was assaulted before. Maybe she felt like she looked ugly today. Maybe she had a diarrhea problem and didn't want you to smell her butt. Maybe she was afraid of you.
I wouldn't worry about it - it really could be anything.
I wouldn't worry about it - it really could be anything.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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^^^ LOL!!!!
GuitarOnFire
Senior Don Juan
Maybe you looked like a freak/stalker?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Yea. Why did the woman cross the road?
To get to the other side!!
penkitten
Master Don Juan
duh, she went to catch a chicken
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asian girls sometime do this to me Their friend must have warned them about me.
Their friend must have warned them about me.Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
People cross streets all the time, trust me Ive seen it happen, Im sorry I cannot post scientific evidence.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Now, how the hell does a post this stupid get 15 reply's and the post's that are actually decent only getting 2? Now it's starting to annoy me.
ShakeItOff
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I just noticed dat LeviathanIYG had a good post im da only one dat replied dis guy asks a dumb question and he gets evri bodies opinon
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
Yeah just follow her so shell get comfortable with you.
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
she cross the street because she wanted to take a dump under the tree lol lol ha ha ha ha.. :crackup: and i looked lol :crackup:
:crackup: and i looked lol :crackup:"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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