"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What does a squinting eye smile with partially raised eyebrows mean?

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sharpshooter

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I made the most random cold approach tonight. I saw these two chicks at the drug store while I was buying some lens solution. They came outside shortly after I got in my car. So I pulled up to their car, rolled down my window and motioned to them to roll down theres. I asked "hey are there any good clubs around this area, i'm not from here"

that's when the driver girl gave me a raised eyebrow type of smile while she was somewhat pinching her eyes, that's how she was talking to me the entire time. It almost looked like she was worried, or nervous. She told me to go downtown, and I didn't know how to react to her weird smirk, so I was like ok thanks, and drove off. That was one of hte weirdest smiles i've got. It was almost like she was intimidated
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ScrewIt

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maybe she was thinking:

is this guy trying to ask if me to go clubbing with him?

that probably hit her mind when you popped your question
 
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jakethasnake

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Haha... that was a weak approach. There was no real CONTEXT, that was the problem. You guys are buying saline solution at the freakin drug store, and outta no where you ask if there are any good clubs around. She probably thought you were going to go to a club and squirt that shyt all over people. :D


Next time, remember CONTEXT when you approach. The approach has to be somewhat natural.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sharpshooter

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ok so what would have been a good approach there. I really didnt' care. I made it seem like I wasn't from the area and that I was going out tonight I don't know :confused:
 
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