"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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What does a squinting eye smile with partially raised eyebrows mean?

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sharpshooter

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I made the most random cold approach tonight. I saw these two chicks at the drug store while I was buying some lens solution. They came outside shortly after I got in my car. So I pulled up to their car, rolled down my window and motioned to them to roll down theres. I asked "hey are there any good clubs around this area, i'm not from here"

that's when the driver girl gave me a raised eyebrow type of smile while she was somewhat pinching her eyes, that's how she was talking to me the entire time. It almost looked like she was worried, or nervous. She told me to go downtown, and I didn't know how to react to her weird smirk, so I was like ok thanks, and drove off. That was one of hte weirdest smiles i've got. It was almost like she was intimidated
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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maybe she was thinking:

is this guy trying to ask if me to go clubbing with him?

that probably hit her mind when you popped your question
 
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Haha... that was a weak approach. There was no real CONTEXT, that was the problem. You guys are buying saline solution at the freakin drug store, and outta no where you ask if there are any good clubs around. She probably thought you were going to go to a club and squirt that shyt all over people. :D


Next time, remember CONTEXT when you approach. The approach has to be somewhat natural.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sharpshooter

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ok so what would have been a good approach there. I really didnt' care. I made it seem like I wasn't from the area and that I was going out tonight I don't know :confused:
 
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