I have a military haircut and I usually wear construction or military boots , leather jacket(in winter) , old boot cut blue jeans and muscle shirts, I don't know if girls like this type of clothing but thats what I feel comfortable wearing.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
what do you usually wear?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
KontrollerX
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Black pants and shirt.
With the shirt usually having some cool symbol on it.
With the shirt usually having some cool symbol on it.
kdnash82
Master Don Juan
all depends on where i'm going and what i'm doing.
usually on a day to day basis, i'm in either jeans and a polo type shirt, and tennis shoes or dress button down shirt, slacks and dress shoes.
if i'm lounging around the house i'm normally in wind breaker or sweat pants and a wife beater or t-shirt. if i'm having a lazy weekend, i'll wear this also.
if i'm going out to the club, it's nothing less than a suit. tie is optional
sunday is always whatever pants i feel like wearing and a Seattle Seahawks jersey. GO HAWKS!!!
usually on a day to day basis, i'm in either jeans and a polo type shirt, and tennis shoes or dress button down shirt, slacks and dress shoes.
if i'm lounging around the house i'm normally in wind breaker or sweat pants and a wife beater or t-shirt. if i'm having a lazy weekend, i'll wear this also.
if i'm going out to the club, it's nothing less than a suit. tie is optional
sunday is always whatever pants i feel like wearing and a Seattle Seahawks jersey. GO HAWKS!!!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm an older dude so I wear pretty expensive stuff. I'm after the money, so I have to show money. I want money with t-and-a so it's a more liberated look than what I wear to work.
My point is to dress to impress yourself, be comfortable. You do dress to send a message about who you are. You never know who might be attracted to that message though. I'm been surprised by goth teenies coming up to me and talking to me in my business suits. I think they could see my confidence and were attracted. She wasn't my type but I did get some insight into her world.
My point is to dress to impress yourself, be comfortable. You do dress to send a message about who you are. You never know who might be attracted to that message though. I'm been surprised by goth teenies coming up to me and talking to me in my business suits. I think they could see my confidence and were attracted. She wasn't my type but I did get some insight into her world.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
I don't buy exspensive clothes. But, I do but nice looking clothes that are color coordinated. Women like guys who match with their outfit. Example; Red hat with red t-shirt and white nike's with a red nike symbol. This may sound ridiculous but, when love it! (from my experience.) I also get compliments from wearing boots. Women think its a sexy/manly type of thing. Another tip I would suggest is.. Iron your clothes before you go out!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.