"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what do you usually wear?

Rash

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I have a military haircut and I usually wear construction or military boots , leather jacket(in winter) , old boot cut blue jeans and muscle shirts, I don't know if girls like this type of clothing but thats what I feel comfortable wearing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KontrollerX

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Black pants and shirt.

With the shirt usually having some cool symbol on it.
 

Obsidian

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yeah, for the most part, i try not to care too much what girls think of my clothing -- except on special occasions
 

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all depends on where i'm going and what i'm doing.

usually on a day to day basis, i'm in either jeans and a polo type shirt, and tennis shoes or dress button down shirt, slacks and dress shoes.

if i'm lounging around the house i'm normally in wind breaker or sweat pants and a wife beater or t-shirt. if i'm having a lazy weekend, i'll wear this also.

if i'm going out to the club, it's nothing less than a suit. tie is optional

sunday is always whatever pants i feel like wearing and a Seattle Seahawks jersey. GO HAWKS!!!
 

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yea I think feeling comfortable is the priority, I posted this because I always see my friends trying their best to wear what girls like.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oh god. I don't see why anyone would WILLINGLY wear a gayass military haircut.
 

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Yapper said:
oh god. I don't see why anyone would WILLINGLY wear a gayass military haircut.
because I like to do it and no body asked your gay-fat-ass opinion :up:
 

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I'm an older dude so I wear pretty expensive stuff. I'm after the money, so I have to show money. I want money with t-and-a so it's a more liberated look than what I wear to work.

My point is to dress to impress yourself, be comfortable. You do dress to send a message about who you are. You never know who might be attracted to that message though. I'm been surprised by goth teenies coming up to me and talking to me in my business suits. I think they could see my confidence and were attracted. She wasn't my type but I did get some insight into her world.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I don't buy exspensive clothes. But, I do but nice looking clothes that are color coordinated. Women like guys who match with their outfit. Example; Red hat with red t-shirt and white nike's with a red nike symbol. This may sound ridiculous but, when love it! (from my experience.) I also get compliments from wearing boots. Women think its a sexy/manly type of thing. Another tip I would suggest is.. Iron your clothes before you go out!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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