"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what do you usually wear?

Rash

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I have a military haircut and I usually wear construction or military boots , leather jacket(in winter) , old boot cut blue jeans and muscle shirts, I don't know if girls like this type of clothing but thats what I feel comfortable wearing.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KontrollerX

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Black pants and shirt.

With the shirt usually having some cool symbol on it.
 

Obsidian

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yeah, for the most part, i try not to care too much what girls think of my clothing -- except on special occasions
 

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all depends on where i'm going and what i'm doing.

usually on a day to day basis, i'm in either jeans and a polo type shirt, and tennis shoes or dress button down shirt, slacks and dress shoes.

if i'm lounging around the house i'm normally in wind breaker or sweat pants and a wife beater or t-shirt. if i'm having a lazy weekend, i'll wear this also.

if i'm going out to the club, it's nothing less than a suit. tie is optional

sunday is always whatever pants i feel like wearing and a Seattle Seahawks jersey. GO HAWKS!!!
 

Rash

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yea I think feeling comfortable is the priority, I posted this because I always see my friends trying their best to wear what girls like.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yapper

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oh god. I don't see why anyone would WILLINGLY wear a gayass military haircut.
 

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Yapper said:
oh god. I don't see why anyone would WILLINGLY wear a gayass military haircut.
because I like to do it and no body asked your gay-fat-ass opinion :up:
 

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I'm an older dude so I wear pretty expensive stuff. I'm after the money, so I have to show money. I want money with t-and-a so it's a more liberated look than what I wear to work.

My point is to dress to impress yourself, be comfortable. You do dress to send a message about who you are. You never know who might be attracted to that message though. I'm been surprised by goth teenies coming up to me and talking to me in my business suits. I think they could see my confidence and were attracted. She wasn't my type but I did get some insight into her world.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I don't buy exspensive clothes. But, I do but nice looking clothes that are color coordinated. Women like guys who match with their outfit. Example; Red hat with red t-shirt and white nike's with a red nike symbol. This may sound ridiculous but, when love it! (from my experience.) I also get compliments from wearing boots. Women think its a sexy/manly type of thing. Another tip I would suggest is.. Iron your clothes before you go out!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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